But the difference is with the men in the older times, they at least had a job, a car, anything in their name & some type of responsibility to show for to the girl

I completely agree many people have an illusion to what a relationship is when they are far off.

I don't know what to say about the having stuff in your name comments because I was unaware that made a large difference

Of course it does

Why wouldn’t it make a difference?

I’m not dating a guy with no job or anything in his name

We're in high school? Its a private school so we both know each other has resources and I have a job, and day trade during school..

I would expect since she’s Christian conservative she’d have a similar mindset

And?

You’re in high school. Exactly. You’re young.

Btw idk if you’re getting offended or not but this is just how I talk

Betaaaaa

Lol I went afk relax

Yeah she probably does have a similar mindset but evidently from what has been seen she's confident in my ability to function

Hmm

Well if you say so

I’m just looking out bc esp when it’s your first relationship, a lot of times we’re seeing things through rose colored glasses

But that is true the rose colored glasses part

@Surreal a nice hike or rollerblading or tennis then a burger joint

Keep it cheap

@Cgnet14 thanks for the ideas, I just wish it wasn't so cold. Those ideas are simple yet potentially effective

If she’s fat minded like me then I’d suggest a restaurant & call it a day <:LMAOXD:494348231434567698>

@Surreal the point is to have fun and get to know each other in a innocent way...maybe go sledding or make a snowman and hot cocoa after?

I hope you have fun😊

Does anybody mind if we combine the <#489627090300305418> and the <#489624019172196384> ?

also would you appreciate a #savage-moments section?

@Surreal dont listen to poopyhead

date this woman if you like her

maybe thing work out and you guys are life partners

maybe you dont and go your sepreate ways after a while

Yellow

maybe you meet agin in 10 years and date again

i would reccomend ice skating

since she will most likely be bad at it, she will cling to you

Lol

if she is comfortable hanging onto you and hugging you while skating

your good

Dat would not work up here

she already lieks you since she going on a date with you

now your next move is to esclate with her

AKA