For both

And how do we introduce that?

? Put it back in your schools. Middle school and JS/Senior high

Well I mean like

An action plan

Cause just getting it back into the institutions alone, that's like a mountain

The men who fought during wars and then came back to teach kids cause no one else could, they had nothing but family in mind, respect for the elderly, etc.

But such men don't exist much anymore, they're no longer needed this much

Can't your politicians make it into law? Gov mandates? Our Ministry of Education requires schools teach home ec

The two world wars connected families like nothing else could

It created such a vacuum that it made things unbearable for people like my mom

You don't need a war. Just politicians that want nation & family building

Yeah what I mean is

Typically children desire either one of those things more strongly, typically what they didn't get

Distance, if their parents clinged, and bonding, if their parents were cold

Freedom, if their parents were controlling

Control, if their parents were gone

This creates deep psychological insecurities

The freedom loving boomer generation was followed by a more nihilistic generation

And this nihilism created a huge vacuum, people miss deep bonds

Meaning etc.

Emos fall right into that space

I suspect, for example, that AntiFa are partially made up of emos that are too far gone right now

They resent the old because it rejected them

To be honest i dont know how to fully uncover the reasons why western societies lose family and value independence once they reach 18. I mean, some do kick their children out & are deatbeat parents. Some children esp leftists are bums in their mothers' basements (still?) or perhaps why they insist on taking a useless degree to get away from their family & live with others

Yes, that's a known phenomenon, it's real

The adult child that still lives at home with their parents

Live with strangers/so called "friends" which they'll tear each other apart when they start to hate them

Yeah cause friendships typically don't last forever

And what starts them is often lost before they end

This also used to be very different

My grandma still sees her classmates

She's over 90

I saw one documentary where some young adult japanese are starting to live beside their parents' homes

Yep, this is a huge phenomenon in japan

They're a depressed and lost generation

One to be closer to their parents (the rare ones that still value them) and two, to help learn how to rear their own children

Isn't it like America?

It is, in fact in Japan it's a bigger phenomenon than in the west, I think?

Because they live much more isolated lives, which makes the family the only valid emotional safety net

But it still addresses reconnecting family values. Both japan and america/western nations seem to become insanely individualistic