a lot of people get in to an unhealthy relationship because of this, they finally give up and divorce because they were never "happy" to begin with.

This sounds like you never heard of a compromise before, or changing, or lowering your expectations.

A great part of having a good marriage is lowering your standards.

I'm not kidding.

This goes double for women.

My relationships got better when Istarted expecting next to nothing.

nah mate, people can change on their own, without an argument, there should seldom be arguments in the first place.

If someone treated me like dirt, I dumped them.

@Belisarius LoL
Life is a battlefield.

ME and my love are very close politically and ideologically, we want the same things in life, and we fight all the time. And it's okay.

I want 88 aryan babies

1488 aryan babies*

i am a pretty patient person, i kid you not i have not been in an IRL argument in over a year now. i never escalate a situation, i can apologize when i am wrong and i know who is unreasonable = people to avoid. selling yourself short is a mistake but people deserve all the trouble they get by doing so.

Nah I want 14 aryan wives with 88 aryan babies

@Belisarius pro level

if fighting works for you than that is ok, but its not healthy for most people.

@Belisarius that's like grandpa wisdom... you 80?

also, i have worked customer service for 2 years now so that helps, kek.

@Belisarius I'm sorry and please don't take this the wrong way, but you are the exact kind of person I wouldn't want to have a close relationship with. If I can't have an unbridled expression of feelings with you, I'm going to hate your guts. MY ex was like this. "Why are you shouting?" "Why can't you tell this to me in a normal tone?"
Because I'M ANGRY BITCH!!!

lol my mom's like that

my current GF just shouts back and tells me I'M a fucking jerk and we both let the steam off.

i think you should consider reading "meditations" by marcus aurelius.

I did, lovely book.

@Mimir's Elixir seems like my gf shoots heroin back in me and it feels good it lets the steam off...kind of degenerate to have petty squabbles turn into something much bigger

Lol this guy knows all the secrets to women

@thatdudeiscool So? If it works for us what bussiness is that of anyone?

i don't think you got a few of the messages he was trying to relay @Mimir's Elixir

unless you want to be more animalistic?

(not in a bad sense)

@Mimir's Elixir it can work for now but you might end up wantying more and more and then well you know cops get called etc.

Nothing wrong being in touch with your primal side.

@thatdudeiscool It's not like that, it's more like cursing and demeaning others for the fun of it.

in touch is one thing, in your relationships with others...

i mean if it works it works...

Look people are different

It's a diversity of temperature that is worth preserving.

We need decisive people and we need contemplative ones.

@Mimir's Elixir primal to me means a good boning since we only had words for like 10000 years but we have been banging for millenia

Lol

Sex is part of it too, but you have to understand that your impulsive emotions are not evil.

They need to be controlled sometimes, and they need to be let loose sometimes.