Message from @identitarian_right
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@Belisarius I'm sorry and please don't take this the wrong way, but you are the exact kind of person I wouldn't want to have a close relationship with. If I can't have an unbridled expression of feelings with you, I'm going to hate your guts. MY ex was like this. "Why are you shouting?" "Why can't you tell this to me in a normal tone?"
Because I'M ANGRY BITCH!!!
lol my mom's like that
my current GF just shouts back and tells me I'M a fucking jerk and we both let the steam off.
i think you should consider reading "meditations" by marcus aurelius.
I did, lovely book.
@Mimir's Elixir seems like my gf shoots heroin back in me and it feels good it lets the steam off...kind of degenerate to have petty squabbles turn into something much bigger
Lol this guy knows all the secrets to women
@thatdudeiscool So? If it works for us what bussiness is that of anyone?
i don't think you got a few of the messages he was trying to relay @Mimir's Elixir
unless you want to be more animalistic?
(not in a bad sense)
@Mimir's Elixir it can work for now but you might end up wantying more and more and then well you know cops get called etc.
Nothing wrong being in touch with your primal side.
@thatdudeiscool It's not like that, it's more like cursing and demeaning others for the fun of it.
in touch is one thing, in your relationships with others...
i mean if it works it works...
Look people are different
It's a diversity of temperature that is worth preserving.
We need decisive people and we need contemplative ones.
@Mimir's Elixir primal to me means a good boning since we only had words for like 10000 years but we have been banging for millenia
Sex is part of it too, but you have to understand that your impulsive emotions are not evil.
They need to be controlled sometimes, and they need to be let loose sometimes.
@Mimir's Elixir im not judging you negatively just making sure others dont see it as a solution to their problems as well by adopting your behaviors
if it works for oyu good
It definitely helps in some situations but I am also a normal person, I'm not going to tell my principal to go rot in hell when he pays my salary.
In an intimate setting where you're supposed to be yourself however... that's different.
but to pass off exceptions as "normal" is not the best, we need controlled emotions, productive energy. a man and wife should ideally never treat eachother poorly, arguing and fighting destroys a great deal more marriages than it helps as it is abuse coming from both sides. teaching children that it is normal is even worse than partaking in it yourself.
There you should be honest and authentically yourself.
and if it works for you good others may not have the restraint...being called a fucking jerk enough might make someone snap
Abuse is not what we do, but agian HUngarian temperament is different from american temperament
@Mimir's Elixir hungarians never get drunk and engage in domestic abuse then right..i mean it must only be an american problem
They totally do, but I don't drink.
whatever
ok so its not something that should be generalized
keep your own thingű
I keep mine
i agree
well dunno, people here insult each other here as a form of "love"
its hard to get back control of your emotions once you lose it, in the heat of the moment injury both mental and physical may occur...
if thats what people want to do that is fine however costly it may be to others.
firends constantly demean each other as a sign of endearment and stuff like that.