Arranged marriages are more successful and lead to less divorses

oh my God lol

i didnt say indians have it well, i said that arranged marriages work for them.

>shitty infrastructures =/= related to marriage

maybe 100 years ago when people relied on marriages for money

its interesting because in most cases both couples have the opportunity to opt out, its mostly just the parents arranging dates for them.

I'll marry the person I want to

as should most people

Divorce and cheating illegal

nobody has told you that you can't

Make

or that you should not be able to

How about this people should not be aloud to marry without parents consent

Marriage can be fixed very easily.

Or oldest family member if parents r dead

Remove no fault divorce, and make 50% custody for the father a mandatory thing in cases of divorce.

i love how many people fall for the jewish marriage meme "fighting is a healthy part of every relationship, it means that the couple care when they fight, when they stop fighting and caring the marriage falls apart!"

nice try shlomo

@Belisarius I actually agree with that. If you don't fight, you don't care anymore.

a lot of people get in to an unhealthy relationship because of this, they finally give up and divorce because they were never "happy" to begin with.

This sounds like you never heard of a compromise before, or changing, or lowering your expectations.

A great part of having a good marriage is lowering your standards.

I'm not kidding.

This goes double for women.

My relationships got better when Istarted expecting next to nothing.

nah mate, people can change on their own, without an argument, there should seldom be arguments in the first place.

If someone treated me like dirt, I dumped them.

@Belisarius LoL
Life is a battlefield.

ME and my love are very close politically and ideologically, we want the same things in life, and we fight all the time. And it's okay.

I want 88 aryan babies

1488 aryan babies*

i am a pretty patient person, i kid you not i have not been in an IRL argument in over a year now. i never escalate a situation, i can apologize when i am wrong and i know who is unreasonable = people to avoid. selling yourself short is a mistake but people deserve all the trouble they get by doing so.

Nah I want 14 aryan wives with 88 aryan babies

@Belisarius pro level

if fighting works for you than that is ok, but its not healthy for most people.

@Belisarius that's like grandpa wisdom... you 80?

also, i have worked customer service for 2 years now so that helps, kek.

@Belisarius I'm sorry and please don't take this the wrong way, but you are the exact kind of person I wouldn't want to have a close relationship with. If I can't have an unbridled expression of feelings with you, I'm going to hate your guts. MY ex was like this. "Why are you shouting?" "Why can't you tell this to me in a normal tone?"
Because I'M ANGRY BITCH!!!

lol my mom's like that

my current GF just shouts back and tells me I'M a fucking jerk and we both let the steam off.

i think you should consider reading "meditations" by marcus aurelius.

I did, lovely book.