Message from @ram3n

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2017-10-20 20:52:28 UTC  

MY female cousin is an engineer. She was working with machines her entire life with her dad.

2017-10-20 20:52:31 UTC  

>Elli you must marry Margret Goldstein so our families can own the bank and the investment firm

2017-10-20 20:52:49 UTC  

>jews being allowed into the ethnostate

2017-10-20 20:53:01 UTC  

HOWEVER i think both male and female should be able to opt out.

2017-10-20 20:53:01 UTC  

No jews, thanks

2017-10-20 20:53:04 UTC  

I low key like arranged marriage but the woman should have some say

2017-10-20 20:53:04 UTC  

nice one herr goldberg

2017-10-20 20:53:08 UTC  

arranged marriages is purely an elitist thing

2017-10-20 20:53:15 UTC  

people do it to further wealth and power

2017-10-20 20:53:22 UTC  

have you never opened a history book?

2017-10-20 20:53:25 UTC  

how is that wrong?

2017-10-20 20:53:37 UTC  

dysfunctional relationships

2017-10-20 20:53:48 UTC  

it'll lead to cheating and a broken family

2017-10-20 20:54:12 UTC  

indians seem to have it working...

2017-10-20 20:54:15 UTC  

🤔

2017-10-20 20:54:29 UTC  

>INDIA

2017-10-20 20:54:33 UTC  

>Doing well

2017-10-20 20:54:38 UTC  

Arranged marriages are more successful and lead to less divorses

2017-10-20 20:54:52 UTC  

oh my God lol

2017-10-20 20:54:57 UTC  

i didnt say indians have it well, i said that arranged marriages work for them.

2017-10-20 20:54:59 UTC  

>shitty infrastructures =/= related to marriage

2017-10-20 20:55:10 UTC  

maybe 100 years ago when people relied on marriages for money

2017-10-20 20:55:44 UTC  

its interesting because in most cases both couples have the opportunity to opt out, its mostly just the parents arranging dates for them.

2017-10-20 20:56:20 UTC  

I'll marry the person I want to

2017-10-20 20:56:26 UTC  

as should most people

2017-10-20 20:56:31 UTC  

Divorce and cheating illegal

2017-10-20 20:56:37 UTC  

nobody has told you that you can't

2017-10-20 20:56:38 UTC  

Make

2017-10-20 20:56:47 UTC  

or that you should not be able to

2017-10-20 20:57:55 UTC  

How about this people should not be aloud to marry without parents consent

2017-10-20 20:57:58 UTC  

Marriage can be fixed very easily.

2017-10-20 20:58:10 UTC  

Or oldest family member if parents r dead

2017-10-20 20:58:26 UTC  

Remove no fault divorce, and make 50% custody for the father a mandatory thing in cases of divorce.

2017-10-20 20:59:17 UTC  

i love how many people fall for the jewish marriage meme "fighting is a healthy part of every relationship, it means that the couple care when they fight, when they stop fighting and caring the marriage falls apart!"

nice try shlomo

2017-10-20 20:59:59 UTC  

@Belisarius I actually agree with that. If you don't fight, you don't care anymore.

2017-10-20 21:00:30 UTC  

a lot of people get in to an unhealthy relationship because of this, they finally give up and divorce because they were never "happy" to begin with.

2017-10-20 21:01:01 UTC  

This sounds like you never heard of a compromise before, or changing, or lowering your expectations.

2017-10-20 21:01:16 UTC  

A great part of having a good marriage is lowering your standards.

2017-10-20 21:01:26 UTC  

I'm not kidding.

2017-10-20 21:01:55 UTC  

This goes double for women.

2017-10-20 21:02:23 UTC  

My relationships got better when Istarted expecting next to nothing.