but what if you dont have access to them?

you just stay quiet?

Then how would you know them?

tv?

you know of them

Those people don't matter

trump for example

lol

I'm talking about

People you have an ability to actually contact regularly

regularly meaning, not daily but at least every so often

well now the standards are changing

no

It had always been this wya

ok

Why does JF qualify for this definition?

I wrote it earlier

Because you can speak to him on his discord

he replies to peoples questions

and he might even go in voice with you if the question is serious enough

I think between you and I, we'll just have to agree to disagree

I'm not running around jumping into discords and demanding attention on an issue

Sometimes it's just interesting to discuss certain events that involve certain people

It's not hard to join a public discord

My interest in JF is about >< that much

and ask a question

Of course it's possible to live the way MTK's talking about: only talking about people to their face.

So I'll probably only talk about him if the discussion is already one that involves him

It doesn't mean it's always a good idea though.

different strokes for different folks, I suppose.

Whether or not you feel you're perfect enough to take all criticism levelled at you perfectly, this doesn't apply to everyone, so don't treat others exactly how you'd want to be treated in this scenario, because, like you said, different strokes for different blokes.

I hold no personal grudge having disagreed or argued with people about anything

It's not about grudges really

I will admit though, I have always thought this kind of way but it is only after each trauma in my life that it pushed me further and further into this kind of thinking.

Saying certain things to people can put them off, especially if you don't convey it to them in a way they're going to interpret correctly, regardless of your intentions.

With certain types of criticism, it can be very hard to convey it correctly to the person you're giving it to.

Well principles are important, even if we all dont hold the same ones

Which is why it can be good to discuss the person's behaviour with others beforehand, so you can, say, deduce the best way to present them with said criticism.

I respect the fact that you are sticking to your guns on this one @Ϻ14ᛟ

Deduce a way to convey it such that they interpret it as well as possible.

Thanks

I see

```I respect the fact that you are sticking to your guns on this one```Everyone should stick to their guns unless they're convinced by the other side. 😛