That you hold dear

People said that about my distant relative who descended into drug addiction, but it rapidly became my problem when I have to eject them from family gatherings because they keep stealing shit

their existence is no longer your problem

I care about people in a general sense, I want them to do well

eject them

But care about yourself first. Don't put yourself first, but sort yourself out first. <:cleanyourroom:429612328192049152>

I'm a social darwinist, somewhat

Same

But I still want the result of that darwinism to be people achieving a higher level of whatever

Communal goals only work from the individual level. do yourself first.

Stop caring about people

^

Can't help it, it's in my nature

Literally, are they your family? Are they your friends? Do they care about you? No? Then it's not your business

Not saying for you to become a cold bastard, or an unpolite person, if you can and want to help someone, do it

but don't become a commie

Yeah, that's the one I want to avoid

Instead of caring about people who don't care about you, start caring more about people who cares about you, make stronger bonds with them

All of my worst qualities and none of my better ones

also people who care about you

like, if they blow you off

don't keep helping them

unless they're your kid

^

and even then, only until they're 18

Don't be a doormat

or a rug

or stairs

you get the point

https://discord.gg/j2PqA7S

What's that?

Nvm

jordan peterson discord

@banestrum
How old are you?

23

You still young

I can't imagine peterson using discord

I feel old

He's on there. Had a discussion about my Heinlein blog lol

I'm turning 30 this year :T

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgGPRyTefKA