Yeah im lost

You gotta impose a certain level of control to protect someone at times, imo

stop your violating the NAP

go take a nap

um

Not necessarily yoi can protect someone when a situation demands it without impossing control

No, no

protective =/= possessive

I mean stuff like telling my bf not to hang out with his drinking buddies

But thats different

Or him telling me to not accept drinks from people in bars

You are a controlling gf.

Thats controlling not protecting

Hey they were making him sell weed man

i would suggest not accepting drinks from people in bars

I don't want him to go to jail

especially if i was a girl

you didn't say that

sounds like you're trying to help

Girls need man with edges, so they can remove the edges.

that's not controlling

Telling someone what to do is controlling

Uhm why cant both parties point out stupid shit that could sink the ship?

It is control. He still wanted to sell weed

not in the case she presented

@Jek Porkins = white knight.

common sense

But I barred him from it because I knew he could go to jail or worse

Oh i missed the weed comment

Yeah that i can get on board with

if you're in a relationship and you see your partner doing some fucked up shit, you're gonna point it out

Jeremy wanted to do it cos cash

sure.

STOP DOXING YOUR EX

His name is Jeremy? Never go out with a Jeremy.

@Deleted User It's time to clean the floors.

Hey his actual name is Jeremiah

it's not like she was saying "no you can't hang out with those guys because you might have fun"

Caring is not letting people do selfdestructive things

better.

I just call him jeremy