Message from @Hungry Xenomorph
Discord ID: 467351590370541588
it's okay
*gears start rotating in my brain*
wtf kind of internet chatroom am i in where no one points out the obvious girl
Well I won't say controlling is completely seperate from protecting
and than says some really fucked shit
what?
im in the damn twilight zone
how do you mean?
Yeah im lost
You gotta impose a certain level of control to protect someone at times, imo
stop your violating the NAP
go take a nap
um
Not necessarily yoi can protect someone when a situation demands it without impossing control
No, no
protective =/= possessive
I mean stuff like telling my bf not to hang out with his drinking buddies
But thats different
Or him telling me to not accept drinks from people in bars
You are a controlling gf.
Hey they were making him sell weed man
i would suggest not accepting drinks from people in bars
I don't want him to go to jail
especially if i was a girl
you didn't say that
sounds like you're trying to help
Girls need man with edges, so they can remove the edges.
that's not controlling
Telling someone what to do is controlling
Uhm why cant both parties point out stupid shit that could sink the ship?
It is control. He still wanted to sell weed
not in the case she presented
@Jek Porkins = white knight.
common sense
But I barred him from it because I knew he could go to jail or worse
Oh i missed the weed comment
Yeah that i can get on board with
if you're in a relationship and you see your partner doing some fucked up shit, you're gonna point it out
Jeremy wanted to do it cos cash
sure.