Message from @mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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2018-08-21 18:22:52 UTC  

I can guarantee you though, talking about being gay does make people uncomfortable.

2018-08-21 18:22:58 UTC  

Military is alright with gay people. Just don't be effeminate

2018-08-21 18:23:16 UTC  

What does "effeminate" mean? Feminine?

2018-08-21 18:23:21 UTC  

Yea.

2018-08-21 18:23:28 UTC  

Twinks and the like in the gay community.

2018-08-21 18:24:08 UTC  

@Maw I don't tell anyone I'm gay unless I know them pretty well, none of my co-workers know

2018-08-21 18:24:25 UTC  

It should be, and likely will be.

2018-08-21 18:24:30 UTC  

there is massive homoeroticism in the military though

2018-08-21 18:24:35 UTC  

You'd be dumb to tell your battalion you're gay.

2018-08-21 18:24:35 UTC  

at least from what ive heard

2018-08-21 18:24:53 UTC  

wat

2018-08-21 18:25:01 UTC  

Gay men are generally more effeminate that I won't deny, it's probably to do with the way horomones affect your end sexual preference

2018-08-21 18:25:06 UTC  

If they don't know you're gay, you're doing it right and they won't mind

2018-08-21 18:25:17 UTC  

I... don't think horomones have changed for me.

2018-08-21 18:25:39 UTC  

I have a higher pitch voice than you would expect from looking at me, but I'm not obvious

2018-08-21 18:26:25 UTC  

I don't want trans people in transition and in HRT in the military. You know if you've talked to HRT patients that the majority of the time they're mentally unstable. It's not the same when you just like dudes.

2018-08-21 18:26:50 UTC  

trans people in teh army were actually getting SRS paid for by the army

2018-08-21 18:26:54 UTC  

by taking a desk job

2018-08-21 18:26:56 UTC  

then leaving

2018-08-21 18:26:57 UTC  

Yeah, from my experience, the military will never accept trannies

2018-08-21 18:27:14 UTC  

a massive percentage were doing that

2018-08-21 18:27:16 UTC  

HRT is really brutal on your mental stability.

2018-08-21 18:27:24 UTC  

Then just let them fail the psych evaluation and the minority of trans who aren't batshit might prove useful @Maw

2018-08-21 18:27:33 UTC  

It's completely changing your horomones, it causes massive mood-swings.

2018-08-21 18:27:54 UTC  

Just think PMS, but to more extreme levels.

2018-08-21 18:28:07 UTC  

Hell, my shop almost went on strike when we found out a civilian on base had HIV

2018-08-21 18:28:10 UTC  

welll women have a cycle of estrogens

2018-08-21 18:28:15 UTC  

trans people its sort of flat

2018-08-21 18:28:25 UTC  

Not all trans people have transitioned though, some simply crossdress

2018-08-21 18:28:34 UTC  

reminder: women want to fuck the alpha when they are ovulating and keep the beta around when they aren't

2018-08-21 18:28:48 UTC  

That's the problem with grouping all these people in one category.

2018-08-21 18:29:07 UTC  

It used to be transsexual and transgender.

2018-08-21 18:29:13 UTC  

Transsexual died out as a term.

2018-08-21 18:29:18 UTC  

They were different for a reason.

2018-08-21 18:29:22 UTC  

I think trans people should be required to note their birth sex alongside their gender identity especially in the military for medical reasons

2018-08-21 18:29:39 UTC  

Because they believed gender !== sex.

2018-08-21 18:29:55 UTC  

Or.... don't allow trans in the military

2018-08-21 18:29:59 UTC  

most just want to be the other though

2018-08-21 18:30:12 UTC  

the non-binary ones are attentionwhore women usually

2018-08-21 18:30:17 UTC  

I don't think that's necessary and it doesn't help with pr

2018-08-21 18:30:23 UTC  

I think trans people shouldn't be a term unless you're actually in the middle of transitioning medically