Married? Kids?

no

Do you have a girlfriend, tho?

no im working on it though

i stopped dating ~2-3 years ago before i was saved

because i was having lots of sex and getting angry like a woman

i didnt know where i was leading these girls so i stopped so i could figure out what i was doing

now im looking for a wholesome christian woman

I was not accusing you of "not being a man because you don't have a girl"

i know, but i wanted to explain anyway

I was just curious if you have sex outside of marriage, that's all.

Ah, ok 😃

nah

i was but no more

jesse is 💯 about sex addiction and being controlled by the vag

i know too many lost people doing so many things just for some sex

Yes. It's horrible.

if you have sex out of wedlock, or rush to get married just to have sex, then you are controlled by sex, controlled by woman, and through her, controlled by satan

you can't lead someone who controls you

True

Because the core of your relationship is lust, which is of satan.

yep

Even if you love her and if she loves you, by having sex with her outside of marriage, you disrespect her.

you know Satan deceived woman by convincing her to eat the fruit of the tree, but the Bible blames Adam for letting her convince him

Cuz you are not committed to saving yourself for marriage, which means that you do not see her as marriage material or that you do not really want to have a serious relationship in its true meaning with her.

the Bible doesn't put emphasis on woman for eating the fruit

yeah

True

when i was in my early 20s i used to party a lot

drugs and stuff

and it never got me anywhere

Are you black?

nah

white looking hispanic

(just to put in the context of cultural influence)

I see. How is the hispanic culture that you grown into?

im usually treated as a white person but im hispanic

um I grew up in a Catholic church (which I think is scam now), and my momma was the head of the house

i think those are generally hispanic things

Why did your dad let your mom be the head of the house?

but like i was saying, if you let all these influences, drugs, sex, partying, even video games and racing cars and other distractions, take over your life, you will never get what you want, because you're always satisfying other people