and @poizon yes...the curves. BUT it's also that she has a calming demeanor that oddly enough agitates me...she's SO normal looking and pretty but not so hot that you have to look at her through a pair of eclpse goggles

But I'll reconsider and push through this time.

@rart how old are you bruh

Haha, isn't it funny how a woman who generally keeps her mouth shut and has some curves is some amazing girl worthy of your mind space..

Seriously, you won't regret it...I mean I got so good at it there before I quit that I could knock one out in about a minute...and then I felt like garbage for the rest of the day

I just turned 44

nice, I hope that by that age I am where I want to be

offtopic

I think it's amusing how our male minds are wired to admire a bit of flesh with curves in the right places as if that's some amazing thing.

And you know @poizon that's pretty much what it is...she's not overtly friendly the way they're expected to be in the service industry...just KIND and pleasant. Rare qualities in the ditch pigs I'm used to seeing around this place

So do you game your wife then rart? That's one of the reasons mgtow don't want to marry

Well, TBH there's a LOT of rail thin meth heads around here couple with a doubly large number of land whales with very few honest ta goodness pretty people

game my wife? Do you mean do I still romance her?

Like, do you use redpill tactics on her to keep her sexual

Essentially

OH, no...she understands what I've been through with my divorce and she's opened her eyes to the truth behind the philosophy. I still overwhelm her sometimes with my dislike of the family court systems and all that is feminism but she's just a cool person...and patient

Sexually interested I guess?

Oh! So you redpilled her

how old is she? @rart

As much as a guy can red pill his wife...she just turned 41

I see. Do you think that the fact that you're redpilled makes you more attractive in her eyes? Or was she always a sexual woman?

so shes your 2nd wife?

Yes...I've been married to this one 12 years on the 11th

I only learned about MGTOW and the red pill...maybe three years ago

I went down the rabbit hole. I actually took a day off work because I stayed up all night that first night watching everything Terrence Popp had put up

Then when I finally got current with his videos I went over to Sandman and TFM at the same time

nice

That was a rough couple of months

red pill rage or what?

If you knew the redpill before you got married, would you have gotten married?

Yeah...and I don't think my first RPR was that powerful because I just went through it again a couple of months ago

@poizon It's funny you ask because Mrs. rart asked me the same question...I flatly told her I never would have even gotten to our first date if I'd been red pilled (properly) before we met

What makes a relationship a RPR to you? Do you mean that you dominate in the relationship?

Haha, don't you think hearing that from you made her feel unwanted?

You'd think having my high school sweetheart-turned-wife getting knocked up by a chad (with twins no less) would have been a catalyst of some type but all I did was dip out...before we made it the final divorce hearing she had a set of twin boys and then another girl bringing her count up to five kids/three dads

damn

Eh...regarding my marriage, it works for what it is and she knows how I feel about it but we don't really discuss THAT. We actively work on the relationshit so there isn't a divorce...turns out a woman CAN enjoy being married to someone she's not cuckolding

Also there's no dominance...it's cooperative. She stays out of my hair and I occasionally build her shit made of wood

Is she a sexual person? I hear a lot of men have less sex in a marriage

She is absolutely NOT a sexual person. I can have it when I require it from her (i.e. she doesn't say no) but it would be nice if she turned on the charm for me so I don't feel like a panhandler out on the side of the street shaking my little tin cup

Exactly. That's how I feel with my gf.