Oh! So you redpilled her

how old is she? @rart

As much as a guy can red pill his wife...she just turned 41

I see. Do you think that the fact that you're redpilled makes you more attractive in her eyes? Or was she always a sexual woman?

so shes your 2nd wife?

Yes...I've been married to this one 12 years on the 11th

I only learned about MGTOW and the red pill...maybe three years ago

I went down the rabbit hole. I actually took a day off work because I stayed up all night that first night watching everything Terrence Popp had put up

Then when I finally got current with his videos I went over to Sandman and TFM at the same time

nice

That was a rough couple of months

red pill rage or what?

If you knew the redpill before you got married, would you have gotten married?

Yeah...and I don't think my first RPR was that powerful because I just went through it again a couple of months ago

@poizon It's funny you ask because Mrs. rart asked me the same question...I flatly told her I never would have even gotten to our first date if I'd been red pilled (properly) before we met

What makes a relationship a RPR to you? Do you mean that you dominate in the relationship?

Haha, don't you think hearing that from you made her feel unwanted?

You'd think having my high school sweetheart-turned-wife getting knocked up by a chad (with twins no less) would have been a catalyst of some type but all I did was dip out...before we made it the final divorce hearing she had a set of twin boys and then another girl bringing her count up to five kids/three dads

damn

Eh...regarding my marriage, it works for what it is and she knows how I feel about it but we don't really discuss THAT. We actively work on the relationshit so there isn't a divorce...turns out a woman CAN enjoy being married to someone she's not cuckolding

Also there's no dominance...it's cooperative. She stays out of my hair and I occasionally build her shit made of wood

Is she a sexual person? I hear a lot of men have less sex in a marriage

She is absolutely NOT a sexual person. I can have it when I require it from her (i.e. she doesn't say no) but it would be nice if she turned on the charm for me so I don't feel like a panhandler out on the side of the street shaking my little tin cup

Exactly. That's how I feel with my gf.

There are worse things than being a 'pussy-beggar' I suppose...but nothing stunning comes to mind at the moment.

I may have mentioned this before when I first got in here but I claim nothing said under the influence of alcohol...for having been raised by the nastiest misogynist this side of the Rio Grande I sure did turn out to be kind of thirsty dude when I was younger...but back in the 90s all this shit was cool. Feminism and gynocentric family courts have wrecked the western hemisphere in record time I tell ya

So when you said its not infrequent and not starfish, you mean only after you initiate it. I thought the whole idea of gaming your wife was the idea that you behave in ways the keep her sexually interested to the point where she wants it more than you do.

And if that sounded foreign then you're absolutely right...my DAD, not my mom, was the custodial parent when they got divorced and I'll tell you how it happened because I could have easily ended up with that chick. He showed up to the custody hearing and she got baked her in her car (where she was living) and overslept

And no it's not that complex...I think I mentioned that I don't game her. She's informed about my red pilled 'condition' and never says no when I take her by the hand to the bedroom...or wherever we end up

You said its never starfish so does that mean she actually enjoys it? xD

Because sex feels boring if I'm always the one to initiate and I never get the feeling she's into me as much as I'm into her, sexually.

Well...I'm gonna go with a definite maybe?

I see I see.

Well I probably shouldn't say she 'never' initiates...she's a human chick so she's got needs too. I'd say one in five is her coming on to me.

Cool

@poizon ay bud

Namaste! Ahp kaysay ho mera dost!

Well I'm level six now...what's that mean in discord terms?

Idk haha

lol im level 5

At any point do we get permission to change our nicknames?