You can, they just dont see it that way

Mm. Yeah, understandable. Kind of a dick move on her part. I would've been like: "Fine, i don't need you're fat land whale ass cramping my style anyways." Lol. Or something along those lines.

the concept of losing face is <:npc:543969082626670612> related ...

IDGAF. But i'm not a dancer anyways.

Compared to the rest of the folks, I was actually the better dancer.

hehe me neither, can't dance at all, it's super weird xD

The instructor and her apprentice were obviously better

I dont look that bad either. I had my work clothes on from the office.

anyway ... just think how it's now ... maybe that stuck up bitch is completely alone, when there is no one else
she has to dance completely alone <:lolz:480186121897377792>

Yeah, she def was the career, single mom type

I was not after her romantically, even if she didnt do that, but that did not help

It turned me off from the class. Shook me a bit too.

then it was a good lesson

Yeah, i suck at it. It's mainly due to my health and lack of drive to improve on it. I don't need to learn how to dance given i don't dance. And my body fights me when i do so eh. Lol.

And yeah, understandable that would bother you dude.

so it probably felt "embarassing"
But yeah, just gdaf ... all these people are irrelevant to you

Yeah, eventually I got over it.

It was a good reminder on female nature

But try to practice the art of ZFG, you'll do much better with that sort of shit if you do.

I studied her body language when the instructor danced with her.

summary: she was a stuck up bitch xD

And she wants in the instructor's private dance house if you know what i mean.

It was a complete change. I was only danced with because the class made her, not out of her wanting to do so. If you are sensitive enough to these subtle gradations, you can tell the difference.

@PatrickLux666. I think she would do that

@conker. I did get a good set of lessons out of it on other things than just swing dancing

At least though I save 60/mo not going anymore

loool

yeah cut the bs out

that's super expensive actually ...

The body language lesson is big for me. Being able to read a woman real time like that is real shit.

Yeah.
I am good at reading body language, but only to a point. Like i am GREAT at figuring out if someone's about to deck me, but figuring out subtle social cues that don't relate to it? Hm, yeah...Good luck.
Hey, look at it this way. That's 60 bucks better spent elsewhere. 😉

@PatrickLux666. Yeah the subtle cues, if you can spot them are big. Especially if they are putting women as managers, you can get good at seeing if you have them on your side.

I'm still bad at that xD

but the best clue is, having a female manager ...
just RUN and find a male manager with less drama

That can be a big game changer. Putting pick up and shit like that aside, there are ways a woman will act and look when they are using their ploys.

The sooner you pick up on it, the less effective is their game.

Yeah, definitely. Me i'm good at spotting body language that tells me that person is a threat and/or aims to do me harm. This could be down to lying, it's why i don't hang out with people in my area. Lol.

Spotting liars and threats is always a big help. Spotting interest and disinterest is also a big one.

I remember this one bitch who was putting on all the waterworks about how abusive her boyfriend is. Yada yada, you know the drill. When she went back into the bathroom, i simply leaned to my mom and said: "How much of that you actually believe?" Turned out, yep. She a liar. Not fully though, the guy was a psycho too. But she loves to start shit with him. I was borderline ready to show her equal lefts at one point...

And you're right. I'm trying to improve on at least reading body language. But it's something that's difficult to learn, given it's natively run more or less. :/

Good morning, gentlemen.

People seem to not be starting their day with positivity.

I'm in a good mood, actually. How are you dude?