Ok... is she big? I don't understand why that would upset someone... should be happy for you. Or does she have different ideals as you?

Shes big

She goes back and forth between body positivity(barf) and dieting

I honestly think she was upset that it was working this time for me and not her.

Oh ok..... that's kinda 💩.... it sucks... but you don't need people that are only trying to get something out of you around. Blessing in disguise as they say.

We lived a 13 hour drive apart so we didnt see each other.

And when I'd give her weighins she would always say she was just a few pounds lighter. But when I went to see her in July...she looked the same

Yeah... I can't deal with those body positivity people lol... I'm not gonna go shaming people but let's be honest.... I know I'm not in the best shape lmao.

Right, I was about an inch away from needing a seat belt extender when I flew to Hawaii back just before this began

I miss those times...

Pre covid?

Well. Congrats. Hope you keep reaching your goals...

Yep... idk how much we can talk about that now so I'll leave it at that.

Right

Thanks for letting me spill my purse

Np. Pretty 💩times.. we all need to vent

Being newly conservative leaning is hard when you spent your first 34 years of life building up the fragility of a democrat.

Well... welcome.

Ultimately I voted Trump because that gay friend said not to bother voting at all since I live in a blue state so my vote wouldnt count

I grew up in Chicago so I know a bit about all that.

Apparently forgetting he lives in Texas, which is about as red as they come

Yeah... it's getting too close for comfort in TX. Too many people from California moving there

My baby brother just moved to El Paso which is mostly democrats but he said no one there is social distancing, gyms are open but no one cleans up.after they use anything and not a mask to be seen.

Sounds great. I'm going!

I cant wait to visit, lmao. I have a house reserved for 4 nights in April...4 bedrooms, private pool, $550 for the whole time

Bars on the windows so it's probably border adjacent but whatever. Bars on the windows!

That's a great deal. Lmao. Yeah... probably not the best neighborhood. But still.. have fun

My brother is white but spent time in prison and looks like he could be a tough mexican. No one will mess with us

Lol I would hope not.

And me, well, I got crazy bitch energy.

Haha. That works a lot of times. Shouldn't be a problem if you're just gonna hang out at the house. I mean.. pool!! Why wouldn't you? Lol

Right? I'm from the Seattle area. Anything above 70 is bikini by the pool weather

Hell, last time I was in texas it was december and still probably pool weather for me.

Lmao. I went to Texas in November once... everyone had winter coats on and i was walking around with a tshirt

Sounds about right. It's always nice there. Thought the first time I went there was a tornado warning which had my mother blowing up my phone and losing her mind.

yeah, no
body positivity is bullcrap

I was like, "mom, relax. We are in a top floor apartment with no bathtub to hide in, we will be fine. Byeeee." She doesnt think I'm funny

Yeah... you're never going to be an adult to some parents lmao.

if your friend is mad because you're doing the work, cut her out. If you're genuinely working out and improving yourself, no one has any right to tell you that you're toxic to them simply by being healthier.

Right. If you wanna be fat and happy, be my guest. But dont hate at me because I choose life over doughnuts.

She ghosted me. I'm hoping someday she will crawl back so I can return the favor and shut the door in her face.