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I managed to somehow lose access to the discord....had a huge frickin melt down thinking they had followed through and taken us down

Oh yeah... it was pretty crazy yesterday.

Such bull. I'm so frustrated. My best friend, well, ex best friend now I suppose, told me that he doesnt consider my rights being violated as a woman and a Christian to be valid concerns because he, a gay mexican man, has never experienced those forms of discrimination

This was almost immediately after he admitted he has never faced any form of discrimination for being gay or not white

So yeah, my friend for the last 16 years is totally cool with my civil rights being violated as long as the rights he has never been deprived of continue to take front and center

You broke up with your best friend?? That blows.... me and my best friend don't agree on a lot but he's like my brother.

Well, both

I had my best friend, Amber. And my gay bff Jon. I started losing weight this year after many failed attempts. Amber out of nowhere emailed me that I "wasn't good for her mental health" and then ghosted me. I think she was pissed about the weight loss because it's literally the only thing that changed.

That was in July. Jon was initially supportive but took it super personally when I told him I couldnt bring myself to vote for Bide

And has been slowly but surely making it clear that hes only interested in me if he can be in charge

Ok... is she big? I don't understand why that would upset someone... should be happy for you. Or does she have different ideals as you?

Shes big

She goes back and forth between body positivity(barf) and dieting

I honestly think she was upset that it was working this time for me and not her.

Oh ok..... that's kinda 💩.... it sucks... but you don't need people that are only trying to get something out of you around. Blessing in disguise as they say.

We lived a 13 hour drive apart so we didnt see each other.

And when I'd give her weighins she would always say she was just a few pounds lighter. But when I went to see her in July...she looked the same

Yeah... I can't deal with those body positivity people lol... I'm not gonna go shaming people but let's be honest.... I know I'm not in the best shape lmao.

Right, I was about an inch away from needing a seat belt extender when I flew to Hawaii back just before this began

I miss those times...

Pre covid?

Well. Congrats. Hope you keep reaching your goals...

Yep... idk how much we can talk about that now so I'll leave it at that.

Right

Thanks for letting me spill my purse

Np. Pretty 💩times.. we all need to vent

Being newly conservative leaning is hard when you spent your first 34 years of life building up the fragility of a democrat.

Well... welcome.

Ultimately I voted Trump because that gay friend said not to bother voting at all since I live in a blue state so my vote wouldnt count

I grew up in Chicago so I know a bit about all that.

Apparently forgetting he lives in Texas, which is about as red as they come

Yeah... it's getting too close for comfort in TX. Too many people from California moving there

My baby brother just moved to El Paso which is mostly democrats but he said no one there is social distancing, gyms are open but no one cleans up.after they use anything and not a mask to be seen.

Sounds great. I'm going!

I cant wait to visit, lmao. I have a house reserved for 4 nights in April...4 bedrooms, private pool, $550 for the whole time

Bars on the windows so it's probably border adjacent but whatever. Bars on the windows!

That's a great deal. Lmao. Yeah... probably not the best neighborhood. But still.. have fun

My brother is white but spent time in prison and looks like he could be a tough mexican. No one will mess with us

Lol I would hope not.

And me, well, I got crazy bitch energy.