Not everyone gets to do what everyone else gets to do.

My life went downhill. At what point did I choose to become gay. What makes you gay

No everyone has sexuality. Priests and religious make the choice to be married to the church as a sacrifice. It is beautiful gift.

@White Feather I see you are resistant to people generously trying to help. If you are not seeking help, please don't trouble others by acting like you are here for help.

Some people are rich, Im not rich and never will be. Some people are super smart and looked at like geniuses, im not one of them. Some people get everything they have ever wanted. And some people will never get what they truely desire even if that dream is wholesome and pure.

I don’t think that was very charitable Danny

Fine then, want can I do to combat homosexuality

Nothing makes you gay, but your mind can sometimes be opposed to certain ideas or more likely to do them.

My cousins family is so prone to drugs and alcohol they ruined their lives and futures and didnt snap out of it until it hurt their kids.

https://catholic-link.org/resources-same-sex-attraction/

Its also why I dont touch the stuff.

My god, then why do I get erections when I look attractive men. What made me different from this way. How are you suppose to stop an ereretion. I have lost

@White Feather In your heart, honestly turn to God now and tell Him you are seeing from His word that He calls it a sin. Ask Him to help you see it is so and that He will help you be remorseful over it so you can start to get victory over it.

Some people get hard from looking at cars, buildings or just video games. its the bodies reaction to being excited.

No you can’t be blamed for involuntary bodily functions

I just I feel disgusted at myself I want to cry. I hate myself for being gay this point. Why did I have to be this way

Like I said, you were not born that way, but you keep going back round to that. You can't be helped if you keep sinking into wrong thinking about it.

The devil wants to point the finger at you and say “you are bad” but god loves you and wants to help you

Dont be. Being who you are is not something to hate. You are what you are and you cannot control how you feel, only how you act.
Again the irish side of the family is prone to getting really mad but they are the ones who say the harsh words when they get mad rather than walking away silently.

He loves to swoop in after we sin and condemn us

The devil that is

Use that disgust and self-loathing and turn it into remorse toward God, repentance.

You are who YOU choose to be.

We all have our crosses to bear

Go to God in your heart and tell Him you don't want to be like that, that you want help to get over it. Don't hide behind these strange thoughts as though you were born that way. He won't be able to help if you keep dodging the help He gives.

You are so loved

I have to go, but may God Bless everyone here. +JMJ+

Well I want a boyfriend. I want love, I just don’t like that god is making that goal unreachable. Why does he have to cause this suffering to me. I honestly hate myself for a long time it’s just I don’t think I can stop myself from being gay. I can’t go back to being straight. I know it’s mostly impossible. We should I follow rules that just make me personally suffer. Doesn’t he want to make me happy.

Your sexuality is a part of you but You are MORE than your sexuality.

I know but I can’t change it

God does not promise ANY of us happiness in this life. Only in the next

Doing the right thing always hurts. It feels good to mow down the person who killed your mother in a spray of bullets rather than forgiving them and letting the government and cops punish them.

You will find there is a lot in life that you can’t change. Have you ever prayed the serenity prayer?

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And wisdom to know the difference.

Amen

If making hard choices to do the right thing is not something you can do, then being a christian is not for you. Paul had to go to prison even though he was innocent because people wanted him dead. Jesus... well Jesus, nuf said. The people in the early church reformation standing against the corruption of the Catholic Churchs political control were burned alive, one of the most inhumane deaths. People in china are killed for even going to christian get togethers.

Life isnt about being happy.

The problem is I don’t know if being gay or not will make my life better or worse. The only guide I have is the Bible

Hedonism is.

Christianity is about filling your life with purpose and helping others until your finally released from this cruel world in your prison of flesh.

I don’t know.
You have agenda and I should decide for myself.