Message from @Archer9

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2019-03-17 22:38:23 UTC  

I suppose thats part of the fight

2019-03-17 22:38:34 UTC  

The physiological aspect

2019-03-17 22:38:55 UTC  

Psychological

2019-03-17 22:39:07 UTC  

You understand you just said you're not mentally strong enough to deal taunts?

2019-03-17 22:39:21 UTC  

Yes

2019-03-17 22:39:28 UTC  

Maybe martial arts isn't the solution.

2019-03-17 22:39:42 UTC  

How old are you, again? I know we've asked and 98% sure you've answered.

2019-03-17 22:40:20 UTC  

Mental strenth isnt fixed

2019-03-17 22:40:26 UTC  

Neither is physical.

2019-03-17 22:40:43 UTC  

With proper training, i know i can shrug off the mind games

2019-03-17 22:40:45 UTC  

I'm asking your age because if you're young, I have a different solution than if you're old.

2019-03-17 22:41:21 UTC  

Part of overcoming a problem is knowing the problem

2019-03-17 22:41:47 UTC  

And identifying what the opponent is trying to do.

2019-03-17 22:42:09 UTC  

Ok lets say im young

2019-03-17 22:42:17 UTC  

What is your solution?

2019-03-17 22:46:38 UTC  

Sup guys

2019-03-17 22:46:50 UTC  

Sup.

2019-03-17 22:47:06 UTC  

For a teenager, I strongly suggest exhausting discipline.

2019-03-17 22:47:20 UTC  

Why you guys have to be right.

2019-03-17 22:47:38 UTC  

After a year, an ex contacts me.

2019-03-17 22:47:57 UTC  

Acts cold, wants me to help with her dogs.

2019-03-17 22:48:03 UTC  

Offers money.

2019-03-17 22:48:08 UTC  

Then acts cold

2019-03-17 22:48:39 UTC  

For a young adult, I recommend studying philosophy, maybe buddhism, existentialism, and focusing on your work.

2019-03-17 22:48:45 UTC  

I played the simp card

2019-03-17 22:48:59 UTC  

Pushed her away

2019-03-17 22:49:28 UTC  

For a later adult, all of the above but don't be afraid to use some of your resources to break frame. Go exploring, take a vacation, change up your scenery.

2019-03-17 22:50:12 UTC  

I am rebuilding my old disciplines ive lost

2019-03-17 22:50:55 UTC  

Waking up early, eating healthier, meditating and working out.

2019-03-17 22:51:04 UTC  

This is somewhat of a base for me

2019-03-17 22:51:08 UTC  

Accepting that you can’t unsee the truth, is the biggest hurdle in life

2019-03-17 22:52:44 UTC  

That's a good place. Add reading to your discipline, but focus on philosophy.

2019-03-17 22:53:15 UTC  

Mm

2019-03-17 22:54:37 UTC  

Ive also been practicing my guitar everyday since i started rebuilding the discipline

2019-03-17 22:54:53 UTC  

I dont want to put too much on my plate

2019-03-17 22:56:00 UTC  

How many of these things improve your self control over your rage?

2019-03-17 22:56:00 UTC  

Havnt really focused on Carpentry

2019-03-17 22:57:12 UTC  

Its helped a lot these past few weeks

2019-03-17 22:57:34 UTC  

Its not possible to get rid of it entirely

2019-03-17 22:58:29 UTC  

But I havnt really argued or fought with anyone, but ive also just been focusing on myself