but he is making good money and saving it, 2 years ago he bought a nice home like it was nothing with a large down payment (since he has a lot of money) and he's chilling

In fact talk him about your mom's shaming tactics

You two could be allies

Just ignore them and live your life the way you want my man, no one has command over what you do with your life more than you do. Remember that man. =)
Though the constant nagging would get annoying after long enough. Might wanna ask your uncle about how he deals with them to get some clue what to do, if you don't know.

@Punished Korgoth ikr

Personally i just blow people like that off entirely, because i don't care in most circumstances. XD

the one thing they can't understand (not just my mom but people in general) is going against their genetic nature and being more than animals

my mom said earlier "it's human life to have kids"

but thats just the animal side of humans is it not?

no other animals have the same consciousness or sentience that we have

i don't want to just give in to my dna and be no better than a fucking duck or some shit

Yeah, i get what you mean. You wanna find more meaning to life than furthering your genetic information to the next poor sap to be born in this world. Lol.

exactly @PatrickLux666

the other thing they say is shit like "but you'll die alone" or "but you won't leave anything behind"

people have a misunderstanding about life

Which is admirable, personally i don't plan to have children. It's...Complicated, i came to that decision before MGTOW. But finding the information in MGTOW just further cemented it.

this might be cliche but tbh life isn't just a destination to death

where you need to prepare b4 the reaper shows up or some shit

life is a journey

the point is you ENJOY that journey

Yeah, it is. You could say.

i know i know its corny as fuck but its tru

It's alright.

I used to be hard no on kids, but I realized I might be willing to go 3 to 6.

because shitty kids are really just shitty parents

But it's hard to argue against yachts and regular vacations and only ever having to wipe my own ass

@Nsiem: My response to people saying i'll die alone: "You do realize we all die alone, all of us. Every. Single. Person. Has and will face death alone, that is what it means to die. You haven't died before have you? Having a child doesn't mean anything in regards to this, i could die surrounding by my offspring and theirs. Or in a room with no one, and i would still be alone when i die. It's just how it goes."

EXACTLY

I don't get all melodramatic about it.

its tru tho

I didn't say it wasn't.

My parents understand. They don't like it, but they understand.

Yeah, my mom gets it. And after hearing my reasons is understanding of my unwillingness to have children. My father though is really wanting me to get on the plantation. XD My younger bro isn't even 18 yet and somehow has baby rabies.

My grandma is completely onboard when I say it's more important for me to get my career and maybe a house going and modern women are not fit to be wives or mothers.

Yeah, my mom's feeling similarly. After seeing just a taste of what kind of women my gen have to pick from, my mom's like: "Yeah, i can see why you're not wanting to be near them. I don't even know if i could even call these "women". "

Well, they got (and are) cunts, but these days anyone with the money, hormone therapy, and a half decent surgeon can get one.

Lol. Yeah, personally i wouldn't mind being with a trap if it's a ultra trap. Like transgender levels of trapdom. XD That might be enough to overcome the problems. Lmfao.

My grandma was old school, classy Mexican. Her mom was an orchestra pianist.

@PatrickLux666 basically, a dude with a pussy

You understand you can have bros and a doll and pretty much have the best of all worlds, right?

without having to put anything inside of a dude