Message from @PatrickLux666
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Nurses and doctor were happy i was so cooperative with them though, i barely even flinched when they ran IVs and shit. Lol. Though i was a bit neurotic with the cleaning part because i honestly didn't know what to do. XD
Currently on my pain killers, they're helping with the pain. So i'm good for now. Definitely gonna have scars though. Lol.
@Rhunespire yes sir
What pain are you in yourself @Xychotic? I'm curious, i hope you don't mind my question.
ok boys
so i just finished a convo with my mom where she tried to shame my idea of not wanting a wife and kids
she used the text book shaming tactics
@Nsiem who cares? It's your life. Just tell her to shut her fucking mouth
Damn @Nsiem. Hope she's not bothering you too much dude, my mom's pretty agreeable with my MGTOW status. XD
well i still love my mom but i know not to bring anything like kids or wife up with her anymore
@Nsiem https://youtu.be/I3HiS49piTw
Say that to her
my uncle (moms brother) was engaged back in his early 20's but it got called off amicably. he's now like 38 or something and hasn't been in any relationships. he's the only one in my moms siblings that gets to travel every year multiple times since he's a manager of chemical/hospital equipment (makes pretty good money)
he has 3 sisters and he's the youngest
all of them (of course mom included) kept and keep on pestering him to settle down
so when she heard me say anything remotely close to his way of life she tried to shame me
That guy kicks ass
Be like him
but he is making good money and saving it, 2 years ago he bought a nice home like it was nothing with a large down payment (since he has a lot of money) and he's chilling
In fact talk him about your mom's shaming tactics
You two could be allies
Just ignore them and live your life the way you want my man, no one has command over what you do with your life more than you do. Remember that man. =)
Though the constant nagging would get annoying after long enough. Might wanna ask your uncle about how he deals with them to get some clue what to do, if you don't know.
Personally i just blow people like that off entirely, because i don't care in most circumstances. XD
the one thing they can't understand (not just my mom but people in general) is going against their genetic nature and being more than animals
my mom said earlier "it's human life to have kids"
but thats just the animal side of humans is it not?
no other animals have the same consciousness or sentience that we have
i don't want to just give in to my dna and be no better than a fucking duck or some shit
Yeah, i get what you mean. You wanna find more meaning to life than furthering your genetic information to the next poor sap to be born in this world. Lol.
exactly @PatrickLux666
the other thing they say is shit like "but you'll die alone" or "but you won't leave anything behind"
people have a misunderstanding about life
Which is admirable, personally i don't plan to have children. It's...Complicated, i came to that decision before MGTOW. But finding the information in MGTOW just further cemented it.
this might be cliche but tbh life isn't just a destination to death
where you need to prepare b4 the reaper shows up or some shit
life is a journey
the point is you ENJOY that journey
Yeah, it is. You could say.
i know i know its corny as fuck but its tru
It's alright.
I used to be hard no on kids, but I realized I might be willing to go 3 to 6.