@Deleted User If you're genuinely interested, I'd love to have a private chat with you on this technology.

@Deleted User its easy to build a crutch for yourself to mold your life into something like a church/job/hobby

@Dr. Weird ⦕Ƃṝ ᴉ⍙Ɲ⦖ I'll hear you out but I was kidding, haha. I am working on getting debt-free right now.

Tfm was talking about it. How some people have no theory of mind and ability to imagine people with different value systems then theirs

It sucks that my best friend is a blue pilled married church goer, can’t hold a conversation with him anymore unless it’s about business

well, think back to the days you were a blue piller

*than* @Deleted User

Touche

@Master Golan Yes. I am having this issue on religion/politics and now add gender to the mix.

@Deleted User Thats fine.

😐 gender?

BP me thought guys like us were mean assholes

ok?

@Sparky "gender/intersexual dynamics/relationships/why I am single."

So I am guilty of the same kind of a lack of insight

I never fell for the nice guy/asshole trope. I read past that always thankfully.

Indifference attracts women. I always knew that.

most of the bluepill is forming a crutch around a "identity" that dosn't really matter example: i'm a church boy so church girls will be diffrent because im different when the reality is their are no groups that don't have shitty and great people in their but you can see this in hobbys and jobs aswell like "i'm a banker, so i know i'll always be protected if xyz happens"

Yes!

when the sad reality is that you can lose the job/fath/hobby

but you have to deal with yourself

This is why Ayn Rand is fresh breathe to me.

I formed my own individuals ideas obviously but pushing individual as the building block is unique to me. I was raised collectivist over individual.

This chat is hard to keep up with lol

And within collectivist - women/children/pets/men

yeeeep.

I do have a stupid adult question for you all...

Shoot

Identity is very much a existential crutch. Nihilism is hated because it shows a existential crisis most are unwilling to navigate.

yes?

identity in itself is a complex issue because how can you define yourself when you are not one thing you are good and bad, dumb and smart @Deleted User

My company is letting me stay at a low cost apartment but I need to find my own place within the next two weeks. I've been looking at condos, townhouses (rent and sale) and apartments. Since I'll live alone what do you all suggest? I'll probably stay in the area for 2-3 years total so buying doesn't seem right.

And self worth invested in identity is pretty arbitrary. Grasping at straws telling oneself they found firm footing. Self perpetuated logical fallacy.

I know buying is usually only a good idea for 5-7 years stay right?

what is your goal @Deleted User is it to retire as early as possible? is it to live a good stable life?

I want to retire early but also live well. I have only ever lived off $15,000 per year. Apparently that's pretty frugal but it felt nice to me.

End of the day I basicly do not care what other people do. Serves me no value. Only care if it imposes on my life.

*maximum kek*

well, if your goal is retire as early as possible you need to cut out all expenses and save as much as you can in a way that you will compound what you are putting into it if you want to enjoy yourself and not eat ramen for 5years then you move away from that and go towards comfort

It's because I am still re-programming myself but the idea of living alone in a luxury apartment/townhouse alone with no debt/wife/pets/etc seems amazing but also terrifying.

You could hump a waifu there