The decisions that led to the friends debt matters as well as his character

That’s a hard thing to let go of, the cancerous people we care about

From a MGTOW perspective the question "Is it wrong?" is invalid. The question is "Is it worth it?"

No, fuck that - if they are cancer, cut them out

Well objectively yes, but don’t make it out to be that easy for most

The best decisions are the hardest ones

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Well to gingersnaps, taking everything into account do you think it’ll hurt or help?

gaiz

Context.. Like how the debt was accrued? I don't entirely know. I know some of it is tools, and buying shit for romantic interests, his car payment, some other shit. He's my best friend but I'm not his accountant, ya know? Will it hurt or help? I thought it would help our bond by helping him out and i thought it was fucked up on my behalf to not help him out considering how much money he's thrown around on my behalf. But what inspired me to ask this question is he used me letting the debt to me go until he gets the creditors off his back as an example of how i am weak or a pushover. Which i don't appreciate. Basically calling my kindness to a close friend a weaknesa.

i want to join the military

how do i keep muh afro

bald cap

afro's are considered faddish

You'll be ordered to shave it

@GingerSnaps dont

give him a dime

I've been screwed over by people who were my "friends"

Too late now man. The damage is done. But thanks. I think I'm done helping people out. The world is too fucked and me too broke to not be looking out for number one and number one only. @Rhunespire

“Money and blood dont mix like 2 dicks and no chicks, find yourself in sum serious shit” - Biggie Smalls @GingerSnaps

Well, whatever your giving him, dont give him anymore

If his response to you trying to help him is to treat that like a weakness, tell him he’s right and let that be the last words he ever hears from you.

Like, its one thing to a spot a bro a few bucks if hes hungry or slightly larger amount and then immediately pay back when you get paid. Its another to fucking pay their bills

He was just using it as a shitty example. We were talking initially how i have unrealistic expectations when it comes to women and dating. I have a very traditional gender role mentality when it comes to dating. We all understand the concept. He says that's not the times we live in and a woman will only submit to the level of dominance i display. Which in his eyes is little. Which is true in a sense, i am a mostly passive, laidback, go with the flow and not make waves kind of person with my friends. And i used to be like that to a degree with women but that was back in my blue-pilled simping days. Yeah i let him talk me into throwing him 1900.

Ouch

When is he paying that back?

Whenever he gets back on his feet.

For your sake, I hope he does.

You are using a lot of passive language, there’s some merit to that being a concern.

And, if you wanted a relationship the way you describe it - you should find a girl who is a complete sub

publicly and privately

Generally, though, whatever you give, never expect it back. Period. If that makes you hesitant, then it’s money you shouldn’t part with in the first place.

And if thats the case, you should stop associating with being a mgtow

@Five, Seven, and Two Inquisitor Rackets is streaming - you watching?

It's complicated. He's in a transitional phase right now. I believe he's good for it. @Rhunespire yeah I've been looking but I'm over it mostly. I have much more important things to work on right now than a relationship. Besidea being mgtow interferes with that in my eyes.

@Rhunespire Can’t right now, fucking around on Discord while I’m handling an incident.

@GingerSnaps That's a start, the journey is a slow one.
@Five, Seven, and Two Oh snap, how bad?

@Rhunespire yeah i missed your second message. Yeah it's a long road ahead but I'd like to think that it'll be worth it.

I would like to quote the late, great JFK - "WE DO THESE THINGS NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE EASY, BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE HARD."

Anyway enough about me. Thanks for the feedback guys. I appreciate it.

MGTOW is generally about individuality and self-reliance. You're gonna carry that weight space cowboy