Message from @Straw_Hat_Ichigo
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Tastes vary with women as much as men
And I've seen women devote themselves as deep as a man would - it depends on the game and the girl
Where World of WarCraft was concerned I saw it equally in both men and women
Especially amongst the Hardcore Progression Raiders I played with
Yeah I'll have to agree with you.
Hey let me ask you guys a question. From a mgtow perspective is it wrong, ie being a pushover or weak to help a male friend out of debt? Nevermind how the debt was accrued cause it's mostly just due to poor choices, putting a lot of shit on credit when he should have paid for it in full or not bought it.
Context matters
Yeah context
The decisions that led to the friends debt matters as well as his character
That’s a hard thing to let go of, the cancerous people we care about
From a MGTOW perspective the question "Is it wrong?" is invalid. The question is "Is it worth it?"
No, fuck that - if they are cancer, cut them out
Well objectively yes, but don’t make it out to be that easy for most
The best decisions are the hardest ones
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Well to gingersnaps, taking everything into account do you think it’ll hurt or help?
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Context.. Like how the debt was accrued? I don't entirely know. I know some of it is tools, and buying shit for romantic interests, his car payment, some other shit. He's my best friend but I'm not his accountant, ya know? Will it hurt or help? I thought it would help our bond by helping him out and i thought it was fucked up on my behalf to not help him out considering how much money he's thrown around on my behalf. But what inspired me to ask this question is he used me letting the debt to me go until he gets the creditors off his back as an example of how i am weak or a pushover. Which i don't appreciate. Basically calling my kindness to a close friend a weaknesa.
i want to join the military
how do i keep muh afro
afro's are considered faddish
You'll be ordered to shave it
@GingerSnaps dont
give him a dime
I've been screwed over by people who were my "friends"
Too late now man. The damage is done. But thanks. I think I'm done helping people out. The world is too fucked and me too broke to not be looking out for number one and number one only. @Rhunespire
“Money and blood dont mix like 2 dicks and no chicks, find yourself in sum serious shit” - Biggie Smalls @GingerSnaps
Well, whatever your giving him, dont give him anymore
If his response to you trying to help him is to treat that like a weakness, tell him he’s right and let that be the last words he ever hears from you.
Like, its one thing to a spot a bro a few bucks if hes hungry or slightly larger amount and then immediately pay back when you get paid. Its another to fucking pay their bills
He was just using it as a shitty example. We were talking initially how i have unrealistic expectations when it comes to women and dating. I have a very traditional gender role mentality when it comes to dating. We all understand the concept. He says that's not the times we live in and a woman will only submit to the level of dominance i display. Which in his eyes is little. Which is true in a sense, i am a mostly passive, laidback, go with the flow and not make waves kind of person with my friends. And i used to be like that to a degree with women but that was back in my blue-pilled simping days. Yeah i let him talk me into throwing him 1900.
Ouch
When is he paying that back?
Whenever he gets back on his feet.
For your sake, I hope he does.
You are using a lot of passive language, there’s some merit to that being a concern.
And, if you wanted a relationship the way you describe it - you should find a girl who is a complete sub
publicly and privately
Generally, though, whatever you give, never expect it back. Period. If that makes you hesitant, then it’s money you shouldn’t part with in the first place.
And if thats the case, you should stop associating with being a mgtow