Message from @ResolvingParadox13
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He's late 40's
Not like he's that old, jesus.
What. Ever.
Lol
She scratched him a bit, but he couldn't hit her back, because you know, law and shit.
Exactly.
There's nothing quite like getting brutally red pilled
I'mma play Minecraft to take the edge off a bit.
Also even when my immediate family (Grandparents) said I needed to get a gf, I find it annoying. But this kind of shit....
They're probably just thinking that things will be easier for you if you have a girl
But it's quite the opposite, and you should count yourself lucky you know that
Nevertheless, seems like they have good intentions. I mean I doubt they have malicious intentions
When they say that, it's only annoying, but when my mom and dad do shit like they've done recently.
I'll take the annoying calls to have a social life over staying on crime infested streets and a manic mom any day.
Good thinking.
I only think their pestering for me to get a gf may be tied to them pitying me for my autism.
Because it only seems to be me that they do that with.
There's nothing quite like realizing your family's compassion is actually nothing more than pity
com·pas·sion
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noun
noun: compassion; plural noun: compassions
sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.
Uh... guys... pity and compassion are pretty close.
I guess I was trying to say kindness, there's a difference between that and pity
I know what you mean. There's a certain seeming condescension when someone pities you.
Yeah
It's like, "Fuck you. Help or gtfo. At this point, just gtfo."
Because pity tends to be along the lines of someone looking down their nose at an unfortunate, saying some platitude, and then moving on.
Yeah, that's the message I'm getting from them, albeit not directly
Wow I get warning signs coming into here now NSFW🤪
@LPA FreeNeko (Hermit's Youth)🇺🇸 In my experience it's never direct. It's something you notice over time, especially with friends and family. Because you're more likely to assume that they are sincere.
It's also kind of hurtful to your pride.
They wouldn't pity you if they thought you could handle it.
So, in a sense, being pitied is a proclamation that they think you are weak.
But, really, it's about framing. How are you going to interpret this?
"You should get a gf"
"Sure, I should propagate the species and pair bond like biology says. But this isn't the 1940s and the deal has been altered so far, it's not worth it anymore."
"You should still get a gf."
"Sure thing, pops. i'll be on the prowl for a nice, faithful Christian girl. Should I also play powerball? Do you have any tips for the horse races?"
Okay..... that's good, I'm stealing those.
Hey man that's what we're here for
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And I got banned from a comments section because some dude was saying "I have a 147 IQ", and I simply pointed out IQ isn't all of intelligence
I only have a 136
It makes me sad.
I wanted to be a 250