Message from @HMAB

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2020-12-27 15:24:10 UTC  

I doubt communication isnt affected by chemicals

2020-12-27 15:24:44 UTC  

Men don't avoid communicating their emotions. Testosterone affects emotion control.

2020-12-27 15:25:40 UTC  

When a female to male transitioner goes on testosterone, their connection to emotional expression is changed. The doctor will tell you this, the therapist will tell you this.

2020-12-27 15:25:50 UTC  

is there science on why girls cry more than boys?

2020-12-27 15:26:07 UTC  

When a male to female transitioner goes on estrogen, they warn that you will become more emotionally volatile. This is also why women tend to be more emotional near their cycles.

2020-12-27 15:26:10 UTC  

hmm. So do trans man cry less because of testosterone?

2020-12-27 15:26:13 UTC  

Because estrogen influences emotions.

2020-12-27 15:26:40 UTC  

Yes change in chemicals does effect your emotions, its the same thing that happens in puberty, it doesnt affect how you communicate them

2020-12-27 15:26:48 UTC  

Yes. As someone with trans friends who actually talk about this (how he can't cry) and having been through it myself, yes.

2020-12-27 15:27:24 UTC  

I know a trans person who isnt on chemicals so I was wondering if appearing as female impacted him

2020-12-27 15:27:29 UTC  

I don't know what your point is. I never said men don't get emotional. I said men and women express themselves differently.

2020-12-27 15:28:01 UTC  

I know a transman who has been on hormones for years and I was taking testosterone for 4+ years before I detransitioned.

2020-12-27 15:28:02 UTC  

You were saying men and women communicate differently due to biology

2020-12-27 15:28:11 UTC  

They do.

2020-12-27 15:28:17 UTC  

Go watch the Mark Gungor video

2020-12-27 15:28:36 UTC  

If you don't have the attention span for 2 hours, her's a 15 minute https://youtu.be/29JPnJSmDs0

2020-12-27 15:28:36 UTC  

They dont... the culture surrounding them does...

2020-12-27 15:28:40 UTC  

WRong.

2020-12-27 15:28:48 UTC  

I've made my argument. I'm done.

2020-12-27 15:28:59 UTC  

...

2020-12-27 15:28:59 UTC  

the nothing box?

2020-12-27 15:29:02 UTC  

You are wrong. And you are unwilling to hear other evidence. Thanks for playing.

2020-12-27 15:29:06 UTC  

yEs.

2020-12-27 15:29:32 UTC  

i know that one!
my old crafts teacher from highschool showed me that one

2020-12-27 15:29:38 UTC  

What evidence...

2020-12-27 15:30:46 UTC  

Already sent video with more information. I can't help you if you're unwilling to listen.

2020-12-27 15:31:10 UTC  

Im watching it and the first thing it says is that we have a box for our cars in our brain

2020-12-27 15:31:18 UTC  

If thats what we call evidence nowadays sheesh

2020-12-27 15:32:17 UTC  

.......He's making it understandable for the average person.

2020-12-27 15:32:30 UTC  

He's talking about legitimate psychological differences between men and women

2020-12-27 15:32:33 UTC  

i also remember a bit about "men don't cry, woman do; a book about gender steriotypes about grief

2020-12-27 15:32:48 UTC  

Those lists of differences are social issues... not biological

2020-12-27 15:33:01 UTC  

Women dont apologise more because of biology...

2020-12-27 15:33:02 UTC  

in it it is explained that there are 3 types of grief
emotional
instrumental
and blended

2020-12-27 15:33:05 UTC  

they are caused by psychological differences brought on by biology

2020-12-27 15:33:17 UTC  

I cannot give you a crash course in the psychological development of men and women.

2020-12-27 15:33:19 UTC  

No.... its cultural

2020-12-27 15:33:23 UTC  

Wrong.

2020-12-27 15:33:42 UTC  

emotinal grief is more commen in woman, and instrumental grief is more commen in men,
blended is a form of the two