Message from @HMAB

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2020-12-27 15:23:55 UTC  

He isnt wrong that the environment influences us greatly. It doesnt mean that Male and female communicate the same since theres been science of how Male and female brains differ

2020-12-27 15:23:58 UTC  

But it is tho... theres no chemical which tells men to avoid communicating their emotions...

2020-12-27 15:24:09 UTC  

If you really want a longer walk through on the difference between the brain, Mark Gungor has a great seminar on it: https://youtu.be/814eR5K7KD8

2020-12-27 15:24:10 UTC  

I doubt communication isnt affected by chemicals

2020-12-27 15:24:44 UTC  

Men don't avoid communicating their emotions. Testosterone affects emotion control.

2020-12-27 15:25:40 UTC  

When a female to male transitioner goes on testosterone, their connection to emotional expression is changed. The doctor will tell you this, the therapist will tell you this.

2020-12-27 15:25:50 UTC  

is there science on why girls cry more than boys?

2020-12-27 15:26:07 UTC  

When a male to female transitioner goes on estrogen, they warn that you will become more emotionally volatile. This is also why women tend to be more emotional near their cycles.

2020-12-27 15:26:10 UTC  

hmm. So do trans man cry less because of testosterone?

2020-12-27 15:26:13 UTC  

Because estrogen influences emotions.

2020-12-27 15:26:40 UTC  

Yes change in chemicals does effect your emotions, its the same thing that happens in puberty, it doesnt affect how you communicate them

2020-12-27 15:26:48 UTC  

Yes. As someone with trans friends who actually talk about this (how he can't cry) and having been through it myself, yes.

2020-12-27 15:27:24 UTC  

I know a trans person who isnt on chemicals so I was wondering if appearing as female impacted him

2020-12-27 15:27:29 UTC  

I don't know what your point is. I never said men don't get emotional. I said men and women express themselves differently.

2020-12-27 15:28:01 UTC  

I know a transman who has been on hormones for years and I was taking testosterone for 4+ years before I detransitioned.

2020-12-27 15:28:02 UTC  

You were saying men and women communicate differently due to biology

2020-12-27 15:28:11 UTC  

They do.

2020-12-27 15:28:17 UTC  

Go watch the Mark Gungor video

2020-12-27 15:28:36 UTC  

If you don't have the attention span for 2 hours, her's a 15 minute https://youtu.be/29JPnJSmDs0

2020-12-27 15:28:36 UTC  

They dont... the culture surrounding them does...

2020-12-27 15:28:40 UTC  

WRong.

2020-12-27 15:28:48 UTC  

I've made my argument. I'm done.

2020-12-27 15:28:59 UTC  

...

2020-12-27 15:28:59 UTC  

the nothing box?

2020-12-27 15:29:02 UTC  

You are wrong. And you are unwilling to hear other evidence. Thanks for playing.

2020-12-27 15:29:06 UTC  

yEs.

2020-12-27 15:29:32 UTC  

i know that one!
my old crafts teacher from highschool showed me that one

2020-12-27 15:29:38 UTC  

What evidence...

2020-12-27 15:30:46 UTC  

Already sent video with more information. I can't help you if you're unwilling to listen.

2020-12-27 15:31:10 UTC  

Im watching it and the first thing it says is that we have a box for our cars in our brain

2020-12-27 15:31:18 UTC  

If thats what we call evidence nowadays sheesh

2020-12-27 15:32:17 UTC  

.......He's making it understandable for the average person.

2020-12-27 15:32:30 UTC  

He's talking about legitimate psychological differences between men and women

2020-12-27 15:32:33 UTC  

i also remember a bit about "men don't cry, woman do; a book about gender steriotypes about grief

2020-12-27 15:32:48 UTC  

Those lists of differences are social issues... not biological

2020-12-27 15:33:01 UTC  

Women dont apologise more because of biology...

2020-12-27 15:33:02 UTC  

in it it is explained that there are 3 types of grief
emotional
instrumental
and blended

2020-12-27 15:33:05 UTC  

they are caused by psychological differences brought on by biology

2020-12-27 15:33:17 UTC  

I cannot give you a crash course in the psychological development of men and women.