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2020-12-27 15:37:37 UTC  

I am not denying there are lmao. I said there are more countries/cultures where men apoloyize less

2020-12-27 15:37:59 UTC  

Yeah probs, cultures massively vary

2020-12-27 15:38:27 UTC  

Culture is the single most important factor in the world in general

2020-12-27 15:39:31 UTC  

No disagreement there. It's one of the reasons why terrorists and invaders seek to destroy cultural institutions and history first when attempting to conquer.

2020-12-27 15:39:35 UTC  

And it shapes how we men behave, I can honestly say I dont communicate my emotions well because everytime I did as a kid I got called a girl or a gayboy, not because I have chemicals in my brain telling me to hide my emotions and apologise less

2020-12-27 15:39:40 UTC  

You are arguing that other cultures may view male and female differently than how americans do, am i understanding it correctly?

2020-12-27 15:39:51 UTC  

Yes

2020-12-27 15:40:21 UTC  

Okay, so it all come down to your perspectice then, not whether what is wrong and what is right

2020-12-27 15:40:38 UTC  

Different cultures have different views of men and women, but there is biological influence on the psychology of men and women.

2020-12-27 15:40:47 UTC  

No single thing defines how a person behaves.

2020-12-27 15:40:54 UTC  

Im not saying whats right or wrong, I'm simply saying that it exists, the difference exists @isoboto

2020-12-27 15:41:34 UTC  

All of us here acknowledge there are differences between men and women

2020-12-27 15:42:16 UTC  

we are just debating if it’s culture or if biology makes men that

2020-12-27 15:42:30 UTC  

It’s both

2020-12-27 15:42:47 UTC  

Not just one

2020-12-27 15:42:50 UTC  

Not just the other

2020-12-27 15:42:50 UTC  

I would say both. Cultures are built on biological needs after all

2020-12-27 15:42:59 UTC  

On the basis of culture, I'm saying the differences between how males and females communicate emotions or behave is 99% dependent on culture, i.e men dont cry, Kirk has been trying to explain that men dont apologise because of biology

2020-12-27 15:43:03 UTC  

It’s both I know, just don’t know which one is more impactful

2020-12-27 15:43:19 UTC  

That is a gross mischaracterization.

2020-12-27 15:43:45 UTC  

The amount varies from person to person too

2020-12-27 15:44:02 UTC  

Males generally apologize less than women from my personal observation.

2020-12-27 15:44:03 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/762720224268910632/792779840801079296/Screenshot_20201227-154355_Discord.jpg

2020-12-27 15:44:10 UTC  

And you know it. I have argued men and women typically communicate differently.

2020-12-27 15:44:22 UTC  

You chose 'don't apologize' from an article that was talking about differences in behavior

2020-12-27 15:44:28 UTC  

@isoboto not denying that, also not claiming its because of biology

2020-12-27 15:44:53 UTC  

I don't see how this proves your point. I have advocated men and women think and communicate differently.

2020-12-27 15:45:04 UTC  

You picked apologize from a random article.

2020-12-27 15:45:13 UTC  

Definitely. Some dudes lean more toward agreeableness, and some ladies lean more toward stubbornness of "I will never apologize"

2020-12-27 15:45:27 UTC  

How is the article random

2020-12-27 15:45:35 UTC  

You posted it as a means of making your point

2020-12-27 15:45:44 UTC  

I posted it as further examples of observable behavior

2020-12-27 15:45:50 UTC  

I mean, it correlates with how each brain works. Women are more agreeable, men aren't.

2020-12-27 15:46:11 UTC  

^

2020-12-27 15:46:13 UTC  

So you want me to ignore these examples?

2020-12-27 15:46:28 UTC  

I didn’t want to type it out

2020-12-27 15:47:31 UTC  

No. You can keep your examples, just like we can keep ours. We are arguing that behaviours is influenced by both cultures and biology. You think cultures overinfluence biology

2020-12-27 15:47:34 UTC  

I can also see why men don’t cry. Only because in the wild. Weakness is an automatic death and it would be more attractive to women

2020-12-27 15:47:41 UTC  

Brain work i.e biological or thinking through cultural norms? @isoboto

2020-12-27 15:48:16 UTC  

Also I wasnt talking to you, that quoted message was a reply to Kirk @isoboto

2020-12-27 15:48:32 UTC  

I can see why men in the wild act the way they are, like don’t cry