Message from @ToxicTransgender
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I hate when people tell me I look good the way I am cuz I know they’re full of shit
Bro I’m like 220
Big ol’ motherfucker
And I’m trying to lose weight
And these fuckheads are discouraging from bettering myself
Stupid rant I know
But still had to say it
Nah, it's great that ur still trying to take care of urself.
^^^ i'm okay with people feeling comfortable in their own skin. but there is a difference between staying the same because you're content with it versus staying the same because you can't work through your problem
Like that’s cool if you’re fat and don’t give a fuck I guess but don’t tell me I should stay fat even if I don’t want to
we don't mind. thank you for trusting us with this information.
good luck and all the best to your weigh-lost journey 😄
It’s the internet
Who really cares
It’s random info anyway
exactly
i don't know. personal information feels private. i always feel somewhat intruding when others share their struggles/thoughts
Instant-gratification culture makes people think obesity is cool...they somehow don't care to mention about the diabetes and heart problems down the line.
I don’t see it as a problem tbh, cuz if a person is telling you shit of their own volition, it’s fine. I’m telling you this cuz i don’t personally care, cuz I’m my mind it’s like what are you gonna do with this info? Bully me about being Fat? When I’m clearly trying to get better
I just think people can’t take criticism anymore, the second you bring something that doesn’t please someone you’re put on the spot for “being an ass” when you’re really just trying to help
I think they "package" it as criticism in their minds... that's probably why they feel insulted. It's not criticism... it's concern.
People are now scared to give criticism
Like I let myself go during quarantine
I got fucking fat
No one told me shit tho
But I know they noticed ya know
One guy told me and I thanked him tbh
It's not fat-shaming either. It's more like the story of "The Emperor's New Clothes".
true, but it's difference in definition haha
What’s that? Cuz in my mind you’re referencing emperors’s new groove the disney movie and I feel like that’s not it
And yeah it’s really not fat shaming of you go like “hey I noticed you got a bit fatter, I’m worried about you you should watch out about that and be careful”
no. it's a referral to a naked emperor that was lied to by his people that he had a good outfit
I haven’t heard of that tbh
But it makes more sense
absolutely, i agree, yeah. but we skirt about the word "fat" because of "negative connotation"
Fat shaming was made up by people in the self esteem and participation generation who never received criticism growing up so dont know how to take it. Criticism is healthy
It helps people improve themselves
Yeah, the "I'm worried about you" part. I think we mean that. It needs to get said more often.
Being fat is a conspiracy 👀
But that depends on the criticism