Message from @qwerty_šŸ˜Ž

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2021-01-03 05:59:38 UTC  

Like legit

2021-01-03 05:59:54 UTC  

<:KEKWait:780472182387376130>

2021-01-03 06:00:02 UTC  

I hate when people tell me I look good the way I am cuz I know theyā€™re full of shit

2021-01-03 06:00:08 UTC  

Bro Iā€™m like 220

2021-01-03 06:00:13 UTC  

Big olā€™ motherfucker

2021-01-03 06:00:18 UTC  

And Iā€™m trying to lose weight

2021-01-03 06:00:31 UTC  

And these fuckheads are discouraging from bettering myself

2021-01-03 06:00:34 UTC  

Stupid rant I know

2021-01-03 06:00:38 UTC  

But still had to say it

2021-01-03 06:01:18 UTC  

Nah, it's great that ur still trying to take care of urself.

2021-01-03 06:01:22 UTC  

^^^ i'm okay with people feeling comfortable in their own skin. but there is a difference between staying the same because you're content with it versus staying the same because you can't work through your problem

2021-01-03 06:01:49 UTC  

Like thatā€™s cool if youā€™re fat and donā€™t give a fuck I guess but donā€™t tell me I should stay fat even if I donā€™t want to

2021-01-03 06:02:04 UTC  

we don't mind. thank you for trusting us with this information.

good luck and all the best to your weigh-lost journey šŸ˜„

2021-01-03 06:02:16 UTC  

Itā€™s the internet

2021-01-03 06:02:20 UTC  

Who really cares

2021-01-03 06:02:26 UTC  

Itā€™s random info anyway

2021-01-03 06:02:31 UTC  

exactly

2021-01-03 06:03:44 UTC  

i don't know. personal information feels private. i always feel somewhat intruding when others share their struggles/thoughts

2021-01-03 06:04:49 UTC  

Instant-gratification culture makes people think obesity is cool...they somehow don't care to mention about the diabetes and heart problems down the line.

2021-01-03 06:04:51 UTC  

I donā€™t see it as a problem tbh, cuz if a person is telling you shit of their own volition, itā€™s fine. Iā€™m telling you this cuz i donā€™t personally care, cuz Iā€™m my mind itā€™s like what are you gonna do with this info? Bully me about being Fat? When Iā€™m clearly trying to get better

2021-01-03 06:06:00 UTC  

I just think people canā€™t take criticism anymore, the second you bring something that doesnā€™t please someone youā€™re put on the spot for ā€œbeing an assā€ when youā€™re really just trying to help

2021-01-03 06:07:14 UTC  

I think they "package" it as criticism in their minds... that's probably why they feel insulted. It's not criticism... it's concern.

2021-01-03 06:08:26 UTC  

People are now scared to give criticism

2021-01-03 06:08:33 UTC  

Like I let myself go during quarantine

2021-01-03 06:08:37 UTC  

I got fucking fat

2021-01-03 06:08:41 UTC  

No one told me shit tho

2021-01-03 06:08:47 UTC  

But I know they noticed ya know

2021-01-03 06:08:56 UTC  

One guy told me and I thanked him tbh

2021-01-03 06:09:39 UTC  

It's not fat-shaming either. It's more like the story of "The Emperor's New Clothes".

2021-01-03 06:10:07 UTC  

true, but it's difference in definition haha

2021-01-03 06:10:19 UTC  

Whatā€™s that? Cuz in my mind youā€™re referencing emperorsā€™s new groove the disney movie and I feel like thatā€™s not it

2021-01-03 06:10:55 UTC  

And yeah itā€™s really not fat shaming of you go like ā€œhey I noticed you got a bit fatter, Iā€™m worried about you you should watch out about that and be carefulā€

2021-01-03 06:11:00 UTC  

no. it's a referral to a naked emperor that was lied to by his people that he had a good outfit

2021-01-03 06:11:13 UTC  

I havenā€™t heard of that tbh

2021-01-03 06:11:18 UTC  

But it makes more sense

2021-01-03 06:11:38 UTC  

absolutely, i agree, yeah. but we skirt about the word "fat" because of "negative connotation"

2021-01-03 06:12:25 UTC  

Fat shaming was made up by people in the self esteem and participation generation who never received criticism growing up so dont know how to take it. Criticism is healthy

2021-01-03 06:12:38 UTC  

It helps people improve themselves

2021-01-03 06:13:21 UTC  

Yeah, the "I'm worried about you" part. I think we mean that. It needs to get said more often.