this kind of stuff happens alot, my mother goes out all day drinking and probably doing drugs, acting like a whore too probably. comes home hysterical expecting me to help her out. so in this case she asks to take my phone which i dont use and i would have been fine to give it to her. i tell her to calm down and ask her why she is shouting and demanding from me. she carries on telling me i have to or whatever. then i tell her no so she starts screaming and going crazy at me so i just left the room. now shes screaming and breaking shit like an entitled child when they dont get what they want. i can obviously pin point all the causes of this: her being spoiled as a child, people submitting to her anger instead of telling her no, and the fact that she gave birth to me at the age im at right now (17) and my dad fucked off really early. so she is the archetypical modern woman: single mother, alcoholic, entitled, childlike, and stupid. im not sure how to deal with the problem appropriately though since if i engage with her stupidity or anger whatsoever il go all in and end up screaming over her and been hysterical myself and ultimately end up just shouting over her until she just breaks down crying.
