Message from @Hiruzen
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as of now, i'm not sure
hmm
yeah, I'd keep an eye on that
if she seems to really enjoy your company, like, more than you'd guess
then you're probably safe to take a shot
I can't really tell if that's happening tbh...
how do you read those things?
like, if conversation's flowing
that's your biggest tell
Same party I smashed my phone just before, I met this girl
I'd only ever seen her at the same birthday party one year before, and back then, she was with a guy
but we chilled in the host's room and just talked for what felt like *hours*, and ended up cuddling
host (my best friend) was like "whoa whoa, she's taken", and we were both just like "myeh"
'cause y'know, she'd left that relationship she was in a year ago
but yeah, figuring this stuff out is weird
flowing conversations?
well, we had an assignment earlier...
in that moment, though, it just clicked - yeah
ah, right. the girl's in my cohort, studying the same course, same class and same units as I am
i think we got along quite well
but i'm not sure if that has any deeper meaning or that she was just being nice to me, like all others
I think the line between just being friendly with you and being into you can vary a lot
If they're generally a really friendly and outgoing person, it's hard to tell, and sometimes those kinds of people are ace so they're not into anyone at all
Otherwise, it's pretty straightforward to see if she's let her guard down for you
stuff that's as simple as maintaining eye contact shows that they're actually interested in what you're saying, but at the same time, that might not have any romantic attachment to it
threading on thin ice
I haven't dared make any moves that might be considered too suspicious/alert her guard
if they're playing with their hair, laughing at something funny you might've said, naturally getting kinda close... then yeah, that's also good
her kind, bubbly exterior makes her resistant to my analysis - I can't read her thoughts as well as others since it's really not obvious at all
it's difficult, man
yeah, really does make it tougher 😣
yes I have renewed my vows
but yeah, bottom line is
treat her like a human
i hope you learned your lesson not to post anything that is slightly related to the nationality of personae non gratae
you shouldn't have to act different to figure this stuff out
and when the time comes that you figure out whether she likes you back, try and get her alone and admit your feelings for her
you do know that dapple is despised on this server??
who?