Message from @Drover Tom

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2019-02-21 20:56:25 UTC  

oh, that's still a reasonable age

2019-02-21 20:56:31 UTC  

Yes it is

2019-02-21 20:56:48 UTC  

I think if you're a woman and you're trying to have kids, as long as you do it before 30 you're fine

2019-02-21 20:57:20 UTC  

Yes i think so too,even at maybe 32 is ok,but past that is pushing it

2019-02-21 20:57:31 UTC  

There has a be kind of a balance. Too late is bad, but I think there's no need to rush it at 18 if not ready.

2019-02-21 20:57:34 UTC  

I was 23 when i had mine

2019-02-21 20:57:47 UTC  

Yes exactly

2019-02-21 20:58:02 UTC  

Modern medicine is also a hell of a thing though, my mom didn't have me until she was 40

2019-02-21 20:58:11 UTC  

Wow

2019-02-21 20:58:13 UTC  

That's... pushing it

2019-02-21 20:58:23 UTC  

But I mean you ended up here, so I guess you turned out fine haha

2019-02-21 20:58:25 UTC  

Having white children is the ultimate form of activism

2019-02-21 20:58:30 UTC  

Hahaha

2019-02-21 20:58:34 UTC  

Granted it was a c-section

2019-02-21 20:58:35 UTC  

Congrats!

2019-02-21 20:58:36 UTC  

Yes it is

2019-02-21 20:58:44 UTC  

My mom was 25 and my dad was 35

2019-02-21 20:58:45 UTC  

Thanks!

2019-02-21 20:59:14 UTC  

See that works,there is 14yrs between hubby and I

2019-02-21 20:59:39 UTC  

ya I think some age gap is good as long as both are adults of course

2019-02-21 21:00:02 UTC  

I feel like age gap doesn't really matter after you're both adults

2019-02-21 21:00:06 UTC  

Of course and it depends on how they connect obviously

2019-02-21 21:00:27 UTC  

I'm 21 and my manager tried to get me to date a 15 year old I worked with

2019-02-21 21:00:29 UTC  

nope nope nope

2019-02-21 21:00:38 UTC  

Oh helllllll no

2019-02-21 21:01:07 UTC  

My wife has had 3 kids inside her 30’s with zero problems. You never know with these things. The risk is low and the reward is so grand.

2019-02-21 21:01:41 UTC  

So true,it is the ultimate reward and each womans body reacts differently

2019-02-21 21:02:44 UTC  

I think if you really wanna do it at that age and you get yourself checked out with a doctor and you're fine you should go for it

2019-02-21 21:02:57 UTC  

I had no problem with mine pregnancy, just bad back labor. But my stepdaughter has had bad High Blood pressure,etc and had ro have c sections with all 3. My daughter n law was natural like me.

2019-02-21 21:03:28 UTC  

My dad's friend actually had his kid when he was 50

2019-02-21 21:03:45 UTC  

Wow

2019-02-21 21:03:47 UTC  

I think both parents being healthy and living healthy is good at decreasing problems. There may be “science” that refutes that, but seems like common sense and my gut feeling.

2019-02-21 21:04:01 UTC  

Feels like that may be pushing it.

2019-02-21 21:04:04 UTC  

I think at that point, even if you're healthy, the problem becomes, do you really want to be 68 when your daughter is 18?

2019-02-21 21:04:12 UTC  

Parenting is gonna be *hard*

2019-02-21 21:04:17 UTC  

It’s eternal glory brother

2019-02-21 21:04:24 UTC  

Exactly!!! @Jacob

2019-02-21 21:05:11 UTC  

President John Tyler’s grandson is still alive. He was the 10th pres

2019-02-21 21:05:16 UTC  

I personally think it's good for men to wait a bit, be established, be able to provide something, etc.
But not *that* long

2019-02-21 21:05:30 UTC  

Yes very much so

2019-02-21 21:06:25 UTC  

That was the norm in western society up until like 100yrs ago