please elaborate

>black truth

lashing hara

a black truth is like me calling you stupid because you dont know what they are technically Im not wrong

but its rude

you're literally arguing in agreement with the idea of Lashon Hara

i dont mind being called stupid, its common banter

🤔

its not like i'll really feel hurt by it

i wanna learn

Truth is never immoral

^

but it is painful sometimes

yall are crazy

no, you are

if you would prefer lies

we're all insane guys

and deceit over reality

you confuse criticism with insults

if an insult is true, it is not longer an insult, but rather it is a reality

its not like insults really mean anything though

at least in the grand scheme of things

All I'm saying is that maybe Hitler had a point.

lol good luck getting a woman without avoiding black truths

avoiding the truth will only hurt the relationship

honesty, sincerity, and genuine care

are better foundations than soothing platitudes

Woke.

i'd want her to be just as honest with me

good luck lads

we'd grow together as people

^what a good man

Anything works short-term if you want to be a douchebag.

if i love her, i'll accept her flaws and help her adress them if she wants to change them

she's my wife

i'll love her

yeah and bringing them up isnt always a good idea

If you’re going to bring up problems with her, you better be sure you know that you’re helping

your idea of truth is closer to that of modern Jewish law than it is to traditional truth

it's ironic

Maybe not, but failure to address personal flaws and failure to accept them coming from other people is an issue that makes you an insufferable human being. You can't win with someone like that, appeasement is just as bad as addressing it forthright.