If you need alone-time, just make sure she understands

The person you date isnt the same person you marry

I would never date someone who didn't share my interests because I am an aggressive autist who ignores everyone who doesn't evince any shared interests

Are you sure UOC isn't vigilance?

@fallot

I don't think a woman into comics is a woman I wanna be into.

luckily my female appreciates my rants about the jewish flaws of our civil discovery rules

>your female

I met a chick hardcore into comics, an engineer

She wasn't bad on the eyes

She was always chipper

I want a wife and a mother for my brood.

I don't want someone who I can pal around with.

bro you are getting it backward, I promise you. She is going to demand your time and attention no matter what

Maybe.

if you hate everything she likes it'll just be worse

I dunno.

My parents have been together since my mom was 18, both have hobbies divorced from each other.

It can work if you don't make it to be selfish.

I don't mean she has to like everything you like. I'm just saying you ought to be have some common ground. What if she's really left wing. What if she chews her food obnoxiously. What if she hates whatever food you like. What if she wants to live in a shitty pink victorian style house.

I do jiu jitsu and my female never would, and that's fine, but in terms of like fundamental stuff we're pretty aligned and I'm really grateful

That's very true. And I only have my family's say as an example, and I noticed it makes me very apprehensive about dating in general.

I don't know the full aspects of my parents' relationship other than DA and MA mode.

So maybe they've their own issues they work through. Or worked through.

But then again, none of this really affects me. I just turned 19. I'm starting school soon.

I just want a baby factory

Who doesn't mind being a second source of household income

LMAO

good luck

It's always ever been one or the other.

My mom didn't go to college until the fifth kid was in school.

Having kids is a job.

The kids' grandparents can be daycare

people shouldn't leave their extended family networks.

What do people need to be moving around so much for. Peasants should be tied to the land.

My extended family has dual citizenships so it's hard to really be around most of them.

And besides grandparents are sorta scary.

@spaceplacenta yes, I am certain he is not vig

Okay

who is vigilance

nor anyone else but himself