Is your cousin on your material or paternal side?

Paternal.

If paternal, and your dad isn't really your dad, it might be legal to get her crotchless panties

Nice

No way that's gross.

Even if she weren't my cousin I don't think I could date someone I'm friends with.

Which probably doesn't make sense. But I think people who aren't into the same things are better off relationship wise

Plato thought so

You grow together, improve yourselves together

Right.

It's a sacrefice

You give up an aspect of yourself to accomidate and cultivate a relationship.

It goes both ways.

That's why I hate divorce.

Naw

I wouldn't consider it giving up part of yourself

If you need alone-time, just make sure she understands

The person you date isnt the same person you marry

I would never date someone who didn't share my interests because I am an aggressive autist who ignores everyone who doesn't evince any shared interests

Are you sure UOC isn't vigilance?

@fallot

I don't think a woman into comics is a woman I wanna be into.

luckily my female appreciates my rants about the jewish flaws of our civil discovery rules

>your female

I met a chick hardcore into comics, an engineer

She wasn't bad on the eyes

She was always chipper

I want a wife and a mother for my brood.

I don't want someone who I can pal around with.

bro you are getting it backward, I promise you. She is going to demand your time and attention no matter what

Maybe.

if you hate everything she likes it'll just be worse

I dunno.

My parents have been together since my mom was 18, both have hobbies divorced from each other.

It can work if you don't make it to be selfish.

I don't mean she has to like everything you like. I'm just saying you ought to be have some common ground. What if she's really left wing. What if she chews her food obnoxiously. What if she hates whatever food you like. What if she wants to live in a shitty pink victorian style house.

I do jiu jitsu and my female never would, and that's fine, but in terms of like fundamental stuff we're pretty aligned and I'm really grateful

That's very true. And I only have my family's say as an example, and I noticed it makes me very apprehensive about dating in general.

I don't know the full aspects of my parents' relationship other than DA and MA mode.

So maybe they've their own issues they work through. Or worked through.

But then again, none of this really affects me. I just turned 19. I'm starting school soon.