so be it

that's the worst that could happen anyway

the computer tests are aparently dubious

My mother paid a professional to administer an MBTI test when I was 13.

useless

testing 13 year olds wouldn't even be in-universe ethical

I have my own ideas about that but

What possessed her?

to do such a thing

it was popular among business types

are you an upper middle class striver sort of family?

either that or asian

I am Laotian.

of chinese descent?

ummm I do believe so yes.

did they leave Laos around 1975?

That period of my family's history is fog to me but it must have been around that time.

there's your answer I guess

tiger mom

Crouching tiger mom in my case kek

fallot what do you think about birth order

I've been thinking about that recently

I think its important but there may be some other hidden factor

compounding the matter

until I get more of a handle on astrology, I've basically suspended this topic

my unformed ideas are: firstborn gets "something" whatever it is

what about you @UOC ?

I don't have any strong opinions about it. I'm willing to treat with the idea that there are broad patterns based on the way birth order affects parental attention or just the child's perception of himself

I can tell from my kid

but like you I think there are potentially hidden factors as well as other stuff

that the first child is special

haven't had a second so no further info

the theory seems to fall apart after 3 kids

I'm the first, and I have some "first" qualities but many non-first

I'm the first too

what's your astrological sign?

cancer

hmm

@Nester was pretty close too

I'm a Leo

i don't know anything about astrology