and that all depends how you sell it

normal spergs are worried about scandal and get all apologetic, but if you just say "Yeah I said it. So?" and look them in the eye, they get all wet

What about psychology?

There have been times I walk around not giving a fuck or interacting with anyone and women come up begging for attention basically

what about it mithra

yeah they want Daddy to validate them

Basically

so there are two basic questions in their mind about you - "Is this a Daddy?" "Will he validate me?"

^^^

validate + not daddy = beta orbiter

no attention + not daddy = LOL LOSER (posts on instagram)

Daddy + attention = sexy time

Daddy + no attention = building sexual tension -> PLEASE LOVE ME

^

but the thing about the dadboss thing is it's got a lot to do with your physical build and actually how you carry yourself, i.e. actually being a dadboss

going through shit experiences is actually a really good way to build up your bitch magnet

because then you seem all grizzled and hardened and vaguely frightening

I see that in drug addicted patients all the time

the white guys who've been through shit and seen people die and gone to jail are like a completely different species from beta bitchboys, and you literally have to move the female patients to another unit or you'll find them sneaking into the guy's room

and a huge amount of it just has to do with the fact that once you've had the shit beat out of you and guns pointed at you and your life taken from you completely, you 100% do not give a fuck about what a cute 20-something girl thinks of you, you basically sniff out if she's DTF or not and if not, whatever. She's a naive little plaything and she knows it, and she wants someone who will make her feel like it

Yeah not giving a fuck seems to be the key

Or atleast the times I have gotten it with little effort

it seems like a huge amount of female interest depends on the depth/degree of you being tough and capable and not giving a fuck

like a college chad not giving a fuck will be on an entirely lower level than a war veteran not giving a fuck

on a different note, accountt1234 proposed an interesting idea: borderline personality disorder is hyperfemininity

he proposes that it's just a woman who genetically has her male attraction strategies cranked up to 11

https://www.reddit.com/r/accountt1234/comments/6t4ldu/the_latex_demiurge/

THE VAST NEGATIVES OF BPD PROVE ANYTHING BUT THAT

NO BPD NO BIPOLAR NO MENTAL ISSUES

WOMEN ARE ALREADY CHILDLIKE ENOUGH CONSIDERED NORMAL

I get that, but it's an interesting idea because it therefore provides insight into female strategies for attracting men

almost stalkerish idealization and fixation on the target, then if he rejects them, dramatic self harm behavior

1. DONT BE A FEMINIST OR COME ACROSS AS ONE SAYING YOU'RE "INDEPEDENT" OR "SASSY" 2. NO PIERCINGS OR TATTOOS 3. PRIORITIZE MAN OVER ALL ELSE. 4. ALWAYS SWALLOW.

I could see how that could be designed as an attraction strategy

I'm not sure you're following me buddy

NOT THAT HARD FOR A WOMAN

yeah you're off on your own train of thought

I TELL ALL WOMEN I VOTED FOR TRUMP

IF THEY SAY THATS HORRIBLE I CONTINUE WITH "NO, WE NEED MARTIAL LAW IMPOSED AND TRUMP DECLARING A DICTATORSHIP SO ANOTHER INSUFFERABLE NEGRO DOESN'T GET IN."

Heartiste calls it the ZFG (zero fuxks given) factor.

ZFG + Jerkboy attitude = gushy gushy.