tfw northern euro genes and 6 pack is hard to get

a woman's idea of a masculine man... it's flowing hair, a white man's face, strong jaw with stubble, thick neck/traps, collared shirt with top open, sleeves rolled up and jacked forearms and terrifying meathook hands, a slim waist with a six pack, then nice pants and shoes

either dressy or else designer jeans and some kind of fancy fag shoes

So basically Fabio?

yes, there is a reason he looks like he does

and then in terms of behavior, they want to see... someone goal directed, someone who does not give a shit about the opinions of others, somebody who has a lot of guts when it comes to conflict, someone other people listen to and look up to

somebody with a Daddy or Big Brother kind of social role

japanese women actually classify men based on whether they are a "big brother" type or a "little brother" type

Alpha vs beta

they also want somebody who is responsible for a lot of stuff and able to provide, yet carefree with lots of free time (entrepreneur, investor)

but an overwhelming majority of the behavior thing is in not giving a shit what other people think

sometimes acting a little crazy or wearing an outrageous clothing item or blatantly saying something unpopular and not giving a shit will prove it

I've found the single best thing I can do is blatantly say really sexist things and not be remotely bothered by everyone getting mad

and that all depends how you sell it

normal spergs are worried about scandal and get all apologetic, but if you just say "Yeah I said it. So?" and look them in the eye, they get all wet

What about psychology?

There have been times I walk around not giving a fuck or interacting with anyone and women come up begging for attention basically

what about it mithra

yeah they want Daddy to validate them

Basically

so there are two basic questions in their mind about you - "Is this a Daddy?" "Will he validate me?"

^^^

validate + not daddy = beta orbiter

no attention + not daddy = LOL LOSER (posts on instagram)

Daddy + attention = sexy time

Daddy + no attention = building sexual tension -> PLEASE LOVE ME

^

but the thing about the dadboss thing is it's got a lot to do with your physical build and actually how you carry yourself, i.e. actually being a dadboss

going through shit experiences is actually a really good way to build up your bitch magnet

because then you seem all grizzled and hardened and vaguely frightening

I see that in drug addicted patients all the time

the white guys who've been through shit and seen people die and gone to jail are like a completely different species from beta bitchboys, and you literally have to move the female patients to another unit or you'll find them sneaking into the guy's room

and a huge amount of it just has to do with the fact that once you've had the shit beat out of you and guns pointed at you and your life taken from you completely, you 100% do not give a fuck about what a cute 20-something girl thinks of you, you basically sniff out if she's DTF or not and if not, whatever. She's a naive little plaything and she knows it, and she wants someone who will make her feel like it

Yeah not giving a fuck seems to be the key

Or atleast the times I have gotten it with little effort

it seems like a huge amount of female interest depends on the depth/degree of you being tough and capable and not giving a fuck

like a college chad not giving a fuck will be on an entirely lower level than a war veteran not giving a fuck

on a different note, accountt1234 proposed an interesting idea: borderline personality disorder is hyperfemininity

he proposes that it's just a woman who genetically has her male attraction strategies cranked up to 11

https://www.reddit.com/r/accountt1234/comments/6t4ldu/the_latex_demiurge/

THE VAST NEGATIVES OF BPD PROVE ANYTHING BUT THAT