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So basically Fabio?
yes, there is a reason he looks like he does
and then in terms of behavior, they want to see... someone goal directed, someone who does not give a shit about the opinions of others, somebody who has a lot of guts when it comes to conflict, someone other people listen to and look up to
somebody with a Daddy or Big Brother kind of social role
japanese women actually classify men based on whether they are a "big brother" type or a "little brother" type
Alpha vs beta
they also want somebody who is responsible for a lot of stuff and able to provide, yet carefree with lots of free time (entrepreneur, investor)
but an overwhelming majority of the behavior thing is in not giving a shit what other people think
sometimes acting a little crazy or wearing an outrageous clothing item or blatantly saying something unpopular and not giving a shit will prove it
I've found the single best thing I can do is blatantly say really sexist things and not be remotely bothered by everyone getting mad
and that all depends how you sell it
normal spergs are worried about scandal and get all apologetic, but if you just say "Yeah I said it. So?" and look them in the eye, they get all wet
What about psychology?
There have been times I walk around not giving a fuck or interacting with anyone and women come up begging for attention basically
what about it mithra
yeah they want Daddy to validate them
Basically
so there are two basic questions in their mind about you - "Is this a Daddy?" "Will he validate me?"
^^^
validate + not daddy = beta orbiter
Daddy + attention = sexy time
Daddy + no attention = building sexual tension -> PLEASE LOVE ME
^
but the thing about the dadboss thing is it's got a lot to do with your physical build and actually how you carry yourself, i.e. actually being a dadboss
going through shit experiences is actually a really good way to build up your bitch magnet
because then you seem all grizzled and hardened and vaguely frightening
I see that in drug addicted patients all the time
the white guys who've been through shit and seen people die and gone to jail are like a completely different species from beta bitchboys, and you literally have to move the female patients to another unit or you'll find them sneaking into the guy's room
and a huge amount of it just has to do with the fact that once you've had the shit beat out of you and guns pointed at you and your life taken from you completely, you 100% do not give a fuck about what a cute 20-something girl thinks of you, you basically sniff out if she's DTF or not and if not, whatever. She's a naive little plaything and she knows it, and she wants someone who will make her feel like it
Yeah not giving a fuck seems to be the key
Or atleast the times I have gotten it with little effort
it seems like a huge amount of female interest depends on the depth/degree of you being tough and capable and not giving a fuck
like a college chad not giving a fuck will be on an entirely lower level than a war veteran not giving a fuck
on a different note, accountt1234 proposed an interesting idea: borderline personality disorder is hyperfemininity
he proposes that it's just a woman who genetically has her male attraction strategies cranked up to 11
THE VAST NEGATIVES OF BPD PROVE ANYTHING BUT THAT
NO BPD NO BIPOLAR NO MENTAL ISSUES
WOMEN ARE ALREADY CHILDLIKE ENOUGH CONSIDERED NORMAL
I get that, but it's an interesting idea because it therefore provides insight into female strategies for attracting men