But what I mean by toxic masculinity is like if they cry about something apparently it’s “feminine” or they’re told to “be a man” idk how to explain it 😂 that’s just an example

The topic itself is very sensitive and difficult to open up about

On both sides

I mean the general basic definition from english, not the philosophical definition

Well men do show emotion in public, just not emotion that makes men appear more fragile and vulnerable if that helps

@un chien m'a léché un pbj😳 exactly, and whenever I get upset about something I'm told to stop being such a woman by my boyfriend's friends. It's ridiculous, showing emotion isn't feminine, its human

GG @Braden's Husband, you just advanced to level 4!

Not all men are like this, obviously. But it's sad that some are

Well I mean there are plenty of women that expect men to be strong and closed off

and in fact seek men out like that explicitly

Like it's sad how some women are manipulative and can get away with falsely accusing a man of rape and ruining his carrer

Yeah, which I think is sad

Men should be allowed to show emotion without being frowned upon

Oh yeah, society and the legal system in many countries currently overvalues female to male accusations of rape

Although a big portion of it is trial by social media

Which is ridiculous

Absolutely

By social media, do you mean online?

Which if that's the case, that is ridiculous. People can be persuaded and manipulated online very easily

I mean the social media "influencers" that convict people of something well before the trial date or the "Twitterati" that engage in organized disinformation campaigns

Ah yes, I know what you mean

So acquittal means nothing at all

Which is still what I said before, people are manipulated so easily

Your job is till gone, your life is still ruined and most of your friends still hate

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@Braden's Husband yea, it’s the same thing with skin care, some men think it’s feminine to wear face masks and take care of your self

It’s a little weird

Very weird

Ok there is skin care, and then there is whatever the fuck wearing a face mask does, because taking care of your skin is super fucking easy

Yea

But some men think it’s girly or feminine is what I’m trying to say

Which is ridiculous

Maybe they don’t want acne

Well yeah but skin care is also dimorphic between men and women

What?

fix that dimorphic word😅

Male skin is different than female skin

oh yea yea

But if they are trying to do something involved with skin care because they have bad skin

It’s not feminine still

Well ok but "bad skin" means cosmetically bad skin