dude please dont appologise i love listening to people its something i feel is seriously lacking in this world and one way i really do love to change it by helping the people i care for, and spreading more hugs too people never realise they need that until after they get one lol

she seems like a revers psychopath if that makes any sence

I feel one of the big problems is lack of person to person interaction because her dad didnt want her dating me so we never had any actual dates which is why im so wary of starting things 'online' with this girl. She also wouldnt stop clinging on me, physically and during like phone calls, they just wouldnt end. I need space to operate, move, and she also wouldnt talk to me if she had any issues. We never fought she was just 'I want to agree with you always'

Should I just be straight up with this girl and say hey, I wanna date but like carona, but I wanna start person to person cause I think thats how my last relationship was so shitty to be in

mmmmm

bluntness is always appreciated once in a while but it should be used sparingly

Or should I just wait till carona ends and take the first chance I get?

like im not sure of the whole sitch your in but in my experiance really take things slow and feel out things so you dont jump into each other and expect one another to just accept "querks" if that makes sence

Yea, Lets talk more tomorrow I have work in the morn and need sleep, gnight

no doubt my guy i hope u sleep well but real quick just incase im up late

deff mention it your into her like u "like" her but maybe not to a dating stand point that she means something to you personally but bring up corona too

@James Warner how you holding up with your cat bud?

I ate it 😝

Woops I thought I tagged

@thedarkness05

How are you holding up with your cat?

Looking through this I guess im not the only one with girl problems

That's a relief

The struggles of having a penis my friend

Amen

Need to talk about it?

...
Should I
Cause it's really not that big a deal

Nothings not a big deal

Talk bro

Oooh boy ok

Are we having girl problems here?

Well back in HS I had a massive crush on S. And not gonna lie I was a total wuss and while I did go on a date with her I never did anything more. So senior year I met my first gf which we started dating later that year. For 3 solid years we dated but then due to lack of communication we broke up and kinda got back the end of last year but to be honest while it's a safe bet. It's not the same

So anyways I got back home in February and about three weeks ago I ran into S.
Well "ran into" since i heard that she was going to be hosting some meeting.

We caught up and we really hit it off (I even remembered an old recipe that she loved and baked it for her) and we've hung out a couple of times



But here's the catch
We're both taken and I don't think that if I broke up
We'd work out

You dont know unless you give it a shot tbh.

But she has to be into you just the same.

I know that years ago she was but
Like im getting hints but im more dense than a brick of lead when it comes to this


I think I'll just tell her honestly what i feel and go from there

Like
I don't know it's just been eating at me

Tell her but if ypur both in relationships its kinda unfair to both your people to abondon them for each other. Like what do you mean by taken?

We're both in a relationship


That's the main thing
When im with her I feel what I haven't felt in a long time
But I don't want to betray anyone cause that's not me
I already talked this through with my gf and she literally said
Im not worried, it's nothing really.
It wouldn't be right to keep her in the dark

Toughie. You have solid morals and I respect you good sir for that. I'd say stay the course, if you dont think things will work out with the girl your with and S doesnt work out with her's and you 2 click again then good. But for now personally I'd maintain a friendahip with S and carry on.

Yeah
She's honestly in top three girls ive ever met
But
I just want this over with


I'll let her know and that's it

What your current relationship?

Got back with my ex

Woah what, did the situation from 5 min ago just chamge?

When your ex sends you nudes out of nowhere and you're lonely

@hootenanny4569 same