@Sheamus I'd recommend that you write a book😉 . Motivation should come from being unafraid to fail. In fact aiming for failure could get you to succeed in whatever it is you're aiming for.

Damn guys gg lol

Like for instance, if you Chase failure rather than success you'll realize how much progress you're making towards your goal. It worked with my start-up. The moment I stopped chasing success and begun chasing failure, I could feel the fear just dying off and whenever I go present to investors I would go there expecting to fail, and making so much room for it only too realize that it pushed me to become 500% better than when I were to Chase success.

Just adding my 2 cents😅 .. @Sheamus

@Dusk Lol I know, it's insane right?

True, relationships shouldn't be superficial, I do believe the acceptance and tolerance for divorce and encouragement of premarital sex really has gone a long way to deplete any moral value of what a family or a home really ought to be, but to mention the purpose of a partner.

As for raising children, I see your argument, but I really could also share my observations here to make better sense of it, people's interpretation goes a long way, if you say there are families that have done everything right, be active in their children's lives etc and it backfires, then how does one define doing everything, or being active in their lives?

You know a tree by its fruits, a good tree produces good fruit, a corrupt tree produces corrupt fruit, food trees don't produce corrupt fruit, and corrupt trees don't produce good fruit. Therefore, if someone is doing it "right" but it's coming out wrong, then actually they are doing it wrong, but for some reason believe what they are doing is right. They are confused, their interpretation of right and wrong is messed up, and not consistent with someone else that is getting the desired results.

So that's my closing statement on the matter there. We shouldn't assume everyone agrees on what's right and wrong, clearly we don't, and the only way to actually tell what's what is by the results produced. If your results are shitty, then your understanding is shitty, your reasoning is shitty, and this often is a result of doing things differently from what is known to work. This is yet again the argument against multiculturalism, but that's leading into a whole different topic that I'm not going to touch right now, it's too late and I need sleep lol.

@Rainbow Monkeys my lack of motivation is not rooted in failure though. I suppose it's more relevance and also time. For anything I can write about, there's hundreds of other books on the same topic, probably not offering the same content really, but if it's not politically correct, it's not going to get anywhere I guess lol, and time, given for things are going and how little time I have, because I want to do so many things, I dunno where ill find time for it, but I suppose I need a reason, then I can prioritize it in some way.

@Rainbow Monkeys and thanks for the 2 cents, I don't really have an issue with success or failure, I tend to be largely successful in most things I attempt because I have an intimate passion and understanding for the things I undertake, that I can't help but be the best I can be in it lol. I don't pursue things I dislike, because then I know I will be the worst at it lol... Something I've learnt along time ago, do the things that come naturally to you, that interest you, if you don't need to be paid to do something, and you naturally do it and enjoy it, you will succeed in it... Again we come to the materialistic perception that people seemingly push for, doing jobs they hate, but it pays well, and then they hate their jobs and suck at it because they do the bare minimum, and never really grow at all... Sad how people torture themselves like that.

@Sheamus I think you can find time. Look at the duration of this conversation, that's at least a page or two? Lol. You could give wisdom to the lost. There never really is a "suitable" time to begin. Myles Munroe mentions that the MOST wealthiest place on earth is the graveyard, where people have taken their gifts and talents with. Caroline Leaf take it further to say that if you've got the perception that multitasking is a thing then you will not manage time as you should be but instead being able to change in between tasks will rewire your mind to achieve really anything you want at that particular moment.

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I seem to be on a roll tonight lol

^^ I had initially planned to end the conversation with the cringe topic but the flow man Lol.

Well, if I'm going to write a book, I'm going to need to do a sample first, need to figure out the format and structure of writing a book, particularly the kind of book it's going to be. So what kind of book should it be, and what should the topic be? Not going to waste my time on something that's not going to be productive.

Haha, yeah these conversations really are good, I don't consider this a waste of time, I really do enjoy it. Lol I can see how people enjoy pod casts and stuff of you get the right topic going and it flows like this.

@Sheamus Agreed. As you've previously stated, if it's something you enjoy and overlook the materialistic part of it, we could be looking at the world's biggest author?.. If you can talk for almost two hours to just one person then imagine what other 10+ million people would be feeling at that particular moment reading something they need amidst all this negativity and madness.

I'm guilty as charged, I listen to podcasts and I mostly listen to Caroline Leaf. And I think mostly because I make it a goal to keep my circles as tiny as possible and rooted with maturity and a good sense of reasoning.

@spursfan82 was looking for podcasts, so he might enjoy giving these a go. I'll try look up Dr Caroline and see what she offers me 🙃 thanks @Rainbow Monkeys

Anyways, it's 2am, we shall pickup on this again sometime, I should have slept ages ago, but perhaps we can get into a voice chat sometime, get more words in less time and have a fuller conversation.

Lol okay no problem.

Thanks! @Sheamus & @Rainbow Monkeys

Just caught up on your conversation. Sad I missed out on the fun!

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