Message from @Nateifier

Discord ID: 520295342877704206


2018-12-06 17:35:19 UTC  

It's very simple. Legal guardianship is controlling, unless set aside with due process.

2018-12-06 17:35:59 UTC  

If there is a disagreement between the guardian and the minor on medical issues, there is process to handle that.

2018-12-06 17:36:49 UTC  

Hmm'kay. We can agree to disagree on that but at least I get where you are coming from and can certainly respect it given your consistency in application.

2018-12-06 17:37:38 UTC  

As things stand, it all varies from state to state which warms the cockles of my 10th Amendment heart

2018-12-06 17:38:27 UTC  

Now as far as the sexism of transgender. Honestly, in many cases, yes, @halfthink.

2018-12-06 17:39:04 UTC  

Historically there were many more M-to-F than F-to-M for the very reason that "tomboy" carries very different connotations in the US than does "sissy"

2018-12-06 17:40:26 UTC  

Many under the transgender umbrella are there only because their gender expression is outside the bounds of permissability in their culture.

2018-12-06 17:41:19 UTC  

They flock with transexuals only because society derides men who where feminine clothing.

2018-12-06 17:42:01 UTC  

That said, transsexuality is totally different and really has nothing to do with clothing. I never cross dressed while male bodied.

2018-12-06 17:42:05 UTC  

Not once.

2018-12-06 17:42:43 UTC  

I wore my first skirt fully six months AFTER I transitioned. My first dress two months after that.

2018-12-06 17:43:10 UTC  

Nowadays I wear a skirt or a dress maybe five days a year.

2018-12-06 17:44:14 UTC  

Most of the time I just wear scrubs. They're easier and I don't have to worry about blood spatters. I even wear them on weekends simply because of ease.

2018-12-06 17:45:13 UTC  

Also, I tried cosmetics during my first year but threw my hands up in frustration and now wear the stuff only once every 10 years, for my high school reunions.

2018-12-06 17:45:26 UTC  

I have someone else apply it

2018-12-06 17:45:27 UTC  

Personally, I always envied the wide array of choices women have

2018-12-06 17:45:36 UTC  

When it comes to clothing at least

2018-12-06 17:46:17 UTC  

My wife was totally useless during my transition, aesthetically at least, since she's a total tomboy and wears a dress only when someone dies. She hasn't worn makeup since our wedding 29 years ago.

2018-12-06 17:46:52 UTC  

No kidding, RedOblivion.

2018-12-06 17:47:38 UTC  

Before I got teased for wearing a pink dress shirt. Now I get teased for never wearing a dress. Sigh...

2018-12-06 17:47:56 UTC  

what is going on here?

2018-12-06 17:48:13 UTC  

really long suicide note.

2018-12-06 17:48:18 UTC  

ah

2018-12-06 17:48:20 UTC  

ok

2018-12-06 17:50:05 UTC  

You only wish, halftime dear. Unfortunately I didn't and now I exist to belie your orthodoxy. Sorry 'bout that. :p

2018-12-06 17:50:34 UTC  

I'm sure in some alternate universe I offed myself and you're much happier. 😃

2018-12-06 17:51:16 UTC  

so what is happening?

2018-12-06 17:52:05 UTC  
2018-12-06 17:52:08 UTC  

That happened

2018-12-06 17:52:19 UTC  

hm

2018-12-06 17:52:29 UTC  

well i agree with the title already

2018-12-06 17:53:15 UTC  

Then avoid reading up because it would just make you as miserable as halfthink is now. I'd hate for that to happen.

2018-12-06 17:53:42 UTC  

huh

2018-12-06 17:54:14 UTC  

Encouraging mental disorders in adults is cruel enough, doing it to children really should be considered abuse.

2018-12-06 17:54:27 UTC  

exactly

2018-12-06 17:54:35 UTC  

i dont think children should be allowed to make such decisions

2018-12-06 17:54:52 UTC  

I agree children shouldn't be encouraged to do it

2018-12-06 17:54:54 UTC  

if you ask a small child, would you like to be the opposite gender, would they say yes or no

2018-12-06 17:54:56 UTC  

Dear God no

2018-12-06 17:54:59 UTC  

Trans sucks

2018-12-06 17:55:26 UTC  

It's not "normal"