Hey! I could use your help. I am new to the red pill - found it only about a week ago.

I am in a weird thing with this girl. I am 24 - and she’s 19. I work as a developer and she’s an intern. It started out me mentoring her, then she invited me to go running, then hiking then watching shows and eating. She started hugging me a ton and laying on me when watching stuff. I’ve gotten infatuated with her, sadly. I can’t seem to control it. I find myself thinking about her randomly now.

She has a boyfriend but she openly mocked his penis size and how he couldn’t pleasure her.

I’m not sure if I should just ghost her or wait three weeks when she leaves from the internship from my dev shop.

She’s constantly asking for help and unable to do basic things by herself. She always wants me to help her but I try to use Socratic method and make her think.

I know I’m being used but I actually fell for it and now I just feel fucked until she leaves and I’ll be all sad. It’s like puppy dog infatuation. I thought I was more mature than this.

Another massive red flag is that she flirts with basically everyone and constantly is sending me and them pictures. I’ve met with 4 other dudes and compared notes. It’s basically the same thing.

It hurts man. I know it’s stupid but I really fell for this.

Yes.

Yes.

Openly talks about sex and other stuff.

I’m definitely not an indifferent pump and dump kind of guy. Wish I could be so I never fell for this shit.

Yeah.

I wanted to tell her how I felt lol but that’s obviously not the move.

I could use that as an excuse to stop helping her though haha.

@JayzikoMGTOW Me? Why’s that?

Why am I falling for this though? I think I just crave attention and a fake relationship.

Fuck me.

@YuriBezmenov Yeah. I think the constant communication and physical contact is what’s fucking with me. I definitely have a scarcity mindset too because I’ve never actually had sex.

@Nawalter Jizney How would I be a fag about it?

@YuriBezmenov Yeah, I haven’t spent a cent on her or anything and we hang out all the time. She’s a crazy bitch but I still want to fuck her.

Gah.

@Nawalter Jizney I openly mock her with other devs when she sucks lol.

@JayzikoMGTOW I am still honestly.

She’s not on a pedestal for me but I still want to smash her and like her overall. I’m definitely leagues ahead of her and will be better in more years. I just am aroused / infatuated.

If that makes sense.

@Enmerkar Yes! She’s constantly flirting and talking down other dudes when she’s with me. She tries to take jabs at me but then I counter punch and she hugs me or leans into me or some shit.

She literally acts like a child.

@Nawalter Jizney which notion?

@Enmerkar that’s the problem... I jerk off and still think about her. That’s the problem.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations I am going to try that.

@JayzikoMGTOW Yes.

I just hate how easily I’ve become infatuated.

And more annoyingly I want to cut off helping her more than anything. She keeps messing with my own performance with constant questions.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations I know it’s all a lie and I know it’s literally lust for me. I want to eat the meat but it keeps teasing me. That’s literally it. Like you said, she’s always around me and me hanging out doesn’t help.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations That was my next question. Should I just ask her if she wants to smash and if she says no just slowly stop talking to her?

The risk is she claims harassment at work but I don’t see that happening.

@Enmerkar The closest legal proatitutes are 1k miles from me.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations How would you play it then?

See what’s weird is she said she thinks of me as a brother... yet flirts and talks about sex constantly.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations Oh yeah?

Oh shit.

Ah

Lol

So hard ghost?

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations So she’s literally just using me for validation and attention?

Fuck.

True.

Alright.

Well ghost it is.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations It’s weird because she constantly sexualizes things I do and yet calls me a brother and touches me so that’s what threw me off.

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations What’s your proposal? I’ll try it or just ignore her for the 3 weeks she stays.

2

Haha

If I’m honest though I know she’s trouble so I probably should do 1

I don’t want a relationship with her tho

True

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations Do you think her having a bf will be on her mind at all tho?

Yeah she kept trying to liquor me up actually.

While laying on me

That’s why I am confused

Haha

No

@AntonioD Comics&illustrations By engaged so you mean marriage or dating?

Fantastic deals.

@Xychotic Enough to get you off.

That's all you need.