Yeah im lost

You gotta impose a certain level of control to protect someone at times, imo

stop your violating the NAP

go take a nap

um

Not necessarily yoi can protect someone when a situation demands it without impossing control

No, no

protective =/= possessive

I mean stuff like telling my bf not to hang out with his drinking buddies

But thats different

Or him telling me to not accept drinks from people in bars

You are a controlling gf.

Thats controlling not protecting

Hey they were making him sell weed man

i would suggest not accepting drinks from people in bars

I don't want him to go to jail

especially if i was a girl

you didn't say that

sounds like you're trying to help

Girls need man with edges, so they can remove the edges.

that's not controlling

Telling someone what to do is controlling

Uhm why cant both parties point out stupid shit that could sink the ship?

It is control. He still wanted to sell weed

not in the case she presented

@Jek Porkins = white knight.

common sense

But I barred him from it because I knew he could go to jail or worse

Oh i missed the weed comment

Yeah that i can get on board with

if you're in a relationship and you see your partner doing some fucked up shit, you're gonna point it out

Jeremy wanted to do it cos cash

sure.

STOP DOXING YOUR EX

His name is Jeremy? Never go out with a Jeremy.

@Deleted User It's time to clean the floors.

Hey his actual name is Jeremiah

it's not like she was saying "no you can't hang out with those guys because you might have fun"

Caring is not letting people do selfdestructive things

better.

I just call him jeremy

reported to gaben

Jeremiah is pretentious dude

Why not just Jer?

It's like the most jewish jew name i can think of

That's a thing?

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What language do you speak natively?

knew that was comming

Oh, I'm malayalee

He is too

yookalaylee?

Malayalam

malamalam

wooooaahhh black betty

MA

LA

YA

LAM

There are so much language groups in India.

it is insane.

Most states have unique languages

WOOOAAAHH BLACK BETTY

MAMALAM

and entirely different cultures

BLACK BETTY HAD A JOB

MAMALAM

I'd say malayalam is the most unique one, though

Sounds like the muppet song

MAH-LAAA-YAAA-LAAM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_2D8Eo15wE

malaulam dudutu doo

is belly dancing a thing in your culture?

uH

No

why?

I watched Bollywood movie once, was fun.

that's more of a arabian thing

@Jek Porkins lol

They did belly dancing in the Bollywood movie.

Oh god Bollywood movies are hilarious

is bollywood telling me lies.

Depends

which movie

Idk the name anymore.

Bollywood movies aren't all the same

the best parts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7K4vGYL9zI

oh

lol

Have you guys heard about what happened to that movie?

it's called Padmavati btw

what about it

They had to do about 600 cuts

after violent riots took place

State your favorite bollywood movie

Currently?

lol people are so fucking whiny

I think....Udaan

Yes