Got a lil bit frustrated

Kings recently some close friends of mine have been going behind my back and I’m trying my hardest not to lay hands on them

What's crackin?

Sorry to hear that bud, what's the scoop?

Basically I had a break up and my oldest friends started DMing her, which is not so bad but they’re trying to make her more of a fixture in our little circle of friends then she ever was when we were dating, and they’d all lied and said they hadn’t been talking to her, and now my friend told me to just get used to it and told me about all the lying

Id say that's a pretty shady circle tbh

Well not to shit on your friends but fuck those guys. I can relate though and that is irritating.

Are you innasmalltown King?

No, not too small, but the bulk of us have known each other since Middle school so it’s basically half my social group

I feel that

That sucks. . . it sounds like she's pretty integrated too...

Unfortunately I found it easier in my personal situation just to branch out and distance myself from my old friends that were doin similar shit

If they're lyin to you and can't be basically respectful to someone they've known for such a long time then it would appear to me they haven't grown as much as you did. You deserve good friends - and that doesn't sound like a high bar.

Thanks king, I’m thinking of reaching out at the vet center at college and developing my friends there and just leaving them behind

It sucks and doesn't feel good to do it but from my perspective it passes and gets better. Personally it helped me to move to a different state as well which I was looking to do for a while.

Yeah, once I’m done with college I’m outie, I been living in Cali too long, especially now that I’ve seen the light about how kickass it is to live elsewhere

I've only ever heard bad things about cali tbh

They’re probably not wrong, weather is nice, but not nice enough to deal with the other baggage

I moved to Missouri (Kansas City right on the border with Kansas) and it was my best decision yet.

I was from New Yorkistan.

It's pretty fucked there too

Yeah get the fuck outta Cali - consider Schad's comments on resetting your network

I've found the same helps

( was atta bar - mind me )

I've had to cut ties with close friends because they became toxic. Longest friendship I cut was about 8 years or so. Just because they were there in the past dosent change what they're doing now. It the whole what have you done for me lately thing. I still want them to be well, but just not near me

Ok, it seems I’ll just try and distance myself, got but 3 years left here till I can use my degree to GTFO

@thedarkness05 To expand on what you've said: good friendship shouldn't be at your expense - in terms of mental/emotional health. It's kinda like hiring a guy to change your car tires and he just shits in your seat and hands you the keys.

Just light his business on fir-

I mean

Find a new guy

ha haha

Pretty much yeah. Like I was putting all the effort in the friendship. So I told the 6 or 7 of em, we're still friends, but y'all gotta set things up, I'm done doing everything. Its been a year or so since we've even talked

im a commie pussy magnet

Why the fuck cant I find a decent woman?

The commies are leftovers that nobody wants, hence the increased availability.

Im not so sure they exist tbh

@Schadraquetor makes sense

@VI/K/INGinnaTRENCH/K/OAT they do exist

I haven't found any.

I also live in Indiana

Hope you don't find one

San Francisco, Portland, New York, you name it

I mean I've found decent women in NY, the actual based kind

NYC my bad

There too

@thedarkness05 Good for you. I don't think this any decent Women left in Seattle or Tacoma For that point.

Remember to check under your mattress covers and mattress pads for mold folks. Don't let it sneak up on ya.

There is a chick I like who is 2 years younger and is good friends with my sister (who showed me a vid of her on snap and I thought she was pretty nice) I met her once at an open house at my sister's tech school. We have similar tastes in music and I've been wanting to find someone since I broke up with my ex 3 yrs ago and havent had any success in the game since my ex. I wanna ask her out but with this whole Carona shit idk what to do and I kinda dont want to put it off till after this virus blows over because im leaving the area in about a half a year. Plz send advice and outside perspectives

Um idk how well you know this person, if you're openly talking to her find a movie or show that you both like and ask her to come over and watch it with you because you're bored

Even if nothing happens she'll probably laugh and have a good time, especially if alcohol is involved

Laughter+alcohol+good entertainment+eye contact=wet panties

Or just go for a walk in the park, keep it real simple and also doable among the Kung flu

Yeah that too^

Maybe enlist your sister's help

If she's willing to set you up

If she's working against you that might be an issue

No my sister is bro this relationship and she's under 21 and I dont wanna get on her fam's bad side if i do have a chance

Pro*

Idk you but I find girls the same age as mine fucking uninsteresting

Can't have a good conversation

And most girls who are interested in my are nulifidians

Total airheads

Feels like I have to lower 10 points of my IQ to talk to them

Just talk to her... ask her how she is, find a common interest to chat about...she will talk if shes interested in you. Simply open the door and see where she takes you. Ladies prefer a friend type first. Dont get too pushy or sexual too fast ..just listen and go with her flow..✌

Well she likes the outdoors, likes the same kind of music I do and is studying to become a veternarian

@hootenanny4569 there you go... starting points. Ask her about being a vet...hopefully she will talk a lot on that and give you openings

Ive been about little stuff here and there. Im just hoping it goes well yaknow?

Smart. Take it slow. If she is worth it the wait will be as well

Thx brp

Bro*

*lass

Bro is a gender netural term, like dude

At least in my book

Cocaine and strippers are gender neutral

Truth

I am more a bro than not 😜 raised by strong military men I dont get along well with females. I'm a tomboy at heart...sexy- but a tomboy 😃

Cars guns and woods are my passions. Well there is one more but we wont talk about that here 😈

I always cringe hearing girls say bro or bruh, it's just off

Dude is universal

Dude is universal....bro or bruh is not.

I dont say bro. I'm a surfer chick- DUDE is the way ✌ I appreciate the respect however... Just call me the creeper 👀

K

Thanks tho all

Did you make an inroad m8?

I made an in I just havent asked her to hangout yet cause of virus, lack of freetime and nerves

Do it, the more you think about it the harder it will be.

Make a joke of it. If you're talking regularly, just say something like "Hey, once the plague has passed the village, would you like to get together some time"

^^^ being funny never hurts.

But yeah, do it quick, don't overthink it

Ask now to hang when this is over....drop that seed

Any of you kings have a diet that worked well for you?

Keto has been pretty successful for me, I used to switch 6-8 weeks on.
I hear the carnivore diet works well for some here, like Squid n Bard.
I kinda meal prep, but I usually only make rice, beans, and chicken. Enough to last me a week or two at a time. I've had great success as Im down 20-25lbs since the end of january

^ Keto is the real deal.

I eat and i shit, thats my diet, sorry not much help

Nice I'll give those 2 a look.

Thanks kings

@hootenanny4569 I wish It was the easy but i gotta lose weight lol

I feel you dude, but everyones different when it comes to weightloss. Just try out some things for a bit, like 6-8weeks at a time, and reevaluate its affect. You'll fimd something that works for you

Will do my man. Thanks

Best of luck

Thanks man