He won't understand this outpouring of love and gifts right now or maybe for 3-5 years. But there will come a day when he will be a young man and understand. When that time comes he needs to understand there is another world out there, another life and strata of society of men commited to a higher calling, that were committed to his brother, and likewise his brother was commited to it and them- and that we are there for him, we always have been, that our love and extended hand to guide him and lift him up is there for him and always has been. It won't bring his brother back but it will mean a great deal to him. Hard to articulate but you get me. Think about it from his perspective and what this would mean to you when you came of age, were asking questions and seeking answers, and then you understood.