and fathers tend to be more how would you say it

calm in arguments

It's more likely

for a mother to abuse

a child

At least in most communities

in some might be other way around

My dad chose a drug dealing witch over us, and she fucked a bus driver and left him after he got arrested, so being a good father is a value instilled in me deeply, because he wasn't and he got what he deserved for it, yknow

They commit the most abuse, that doesn't necessarily mean an individual is more likely to abuse. It could just be correlated.

I've never really had a father figure, I just learned morals from being in good schools

Without a strong father figure, well, I didn't develop as well as I could have, and it was more of a fight getting to where I am today, I suppose

that taught me the consequences

of my actions

Wamen do 90% of domestic abuse

Or was it 80?

Like women interact with the children more than fathers in most communities, so it makes sense they would abuse more children

My mom was very coddling which probably made it more of a factor for me

just another example of sanitary femininity smh my head

Just gas children

It's that easy

In some traditional sayings I have heard it goes like this, "The love of a mother is in her hugs, the love of a father is in how he sacrifices for his children"

Best way to punish children, publicly embarass them

Relevant

there is nothing

more painful

No that's retarded

when I say

publiclyu

I don't mean

One of the harshest ways. Doesn't mean one of the best.

like in an abusive way

Being embarrassed is nothing compared to real abuse

Being embarrassed can be real abuse.

There is also a big difference between Discipline and Abuse.

I mean being shamed for you actions in front of peers to some degree

No that's retarded

That's how I learned

my morals

Or maybe it's just cuz of my personality

I hate being seen as immature or foolish