Message from @xorgy

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2018-10-29 05:09:13 UTC  

aside from maybe the Americans with Disabilities Act, which has a great number of pretty reasonable things to say about washrooms.

2018-10-29 05:09:20 UTC  

especially if it is not anonymous

2018-10-29 05:09:55 UTC  

Social Desirability bias

2018-10-29 05:09:55 UTC  

@DrYuriMom given the title of that page, I assume it would be easy to figure out which one to go to

2018-10-29 05:09:56 UTC  

boom

2018-10-29 05:09:59 UTC  

remembered

2018-10-29 05:10:16 UTC  

@DrYuriMom If you're confused, look at your birth certificate

2018-10-29 05:10:34 UTC  

I still honestly couldn't care less, but it seems that reasonable biological women care a great deal about it

2018-10-29 05:10:55 UTC  

That's the thing. Some transpersons have an amended birth certificate that says one thing but their original BC at birth said another.

2018-10-29 05:11:00 UTC  

@xorgy I mean, there's sort of a conditioned fear of men

2018-10-29 05:11:02 UTC  

I know women who have been upset by non-discriminatory washrooms

2018-10-29 05:11:16 UTC  

@Ronano I think also a lot of girls just don't like seeing strangers' penises

2018-10-29 05:11:27 UTC  

cubicles

2018-10-29 05:11:27 UTC  

IMO society seemed to be handling this ambiguity pretty well before anyone wanted to legislate anything

2018-10-29 05:11:32 UTC  

I can understand not wanting a penis in the ladies room

2018-10-29 05:11:33 UTC  

But also

2018-10-29 05:11:35 UTC  

cubicles are prohibitively expensive

2018-10-29 05:11:46 UTC  

if cubicles were necessary, a lot of establishments would forego washrooms altogether, lol

2018-10-29 05:11:56 UTC  

One time I went into the girl's restroom in middle school on accident

2018-10-29 05:12:02 UTC  

I don't know many places withoutr cubicles

2018-10-29 05:12:02 UTC  

or at least, multi-occupant washrooms

2018-10-29 05:12:07 UTC  

Society did, but then trans got trendy 😕

2018-10-29 05:12:07 UTC  

seriously

2018-10-29 05:12:09 UTC  

I could feel something was off given the lack of urinals

2018-10-29 05:12:10 UTC  

Should washrooms be marked for Penis and Not Penis?

2018-10-29 05:12:13 UTC  

I'm not overstating that

2018-10-29 05:12:17 UTC  

@Ronano cubicles for everything though?

2018-10-29 05:12:21 UTC  

what about urinals?

2018-10-29 05:12:26 UTC  

99% of bathrooms I go into have cubicals

2018-10-29 05:12:37 UTC  

I'd say 50% have urinals

2018-10-29 05:12:40 UTC  

a high traffic men's room without urinals is... usually a pretty disgusting sight to behold

2018-10-29 05:12:49 UTC  

It's not always pleasant, aye

2018-10-29 05:13:15 UTC  

Are you a creepy crossdressing pervert wanting to peep on women? Nobody has any sympathy.
Are you trans and someone harassed you for no reason? Maybe not universal sympathy, but the general public is generally on your side.

2018-10-29 05:13:16 UTC  

not many public bathrooms are 😛

2018-10-29 05:13:21 UTC  

I was at a (shitty) concert venue in Toronto a couple weeks ago

2018-10-29 05:13:22 UTC  

In the US it's not rare to have urinals a couple feet from each other without any partition

2018-10-29 05:13:27 UTC  

with my brother hand his girlfriend

2018-10-29 05:13:34 UTC  

they had a men's room which was in horrid disrepair

2018-10-29 05:13:47 UTC  

and a gender nonspecific washroom for everyone else

2018-10-29 05:14:12 UTC  

which is I think probably the stupidest option in the general case, but obviously they had been sorta forced into this by circumstance

2018-10-29 05:14:18 UTC  

Idk why bathrooms are even an issue. Why does anyone give a shit.